brendaanise

not a problem, we all need it and sometimes a kick in the butt also. i think the biggest motivation for me is seeing the pictures from you all who have been where i'm trying to get to. i also had the problem of no other half (boyfriend) support and that's why i put the surgery off for 3yrs. but it was really his own insecurities and taste for larger woman.and was afraid i would get too little, so i dumped him and got myself together. i think that's one of my only regrets is that i did not do it sooner. so now it's all about me. sometimes i do wonder though what is too little ? or what is enough? especially if you have been over weight just about your entire life....