i was banded on dec 3rd and so many people have asked me about how i was dealing with not being able to eat the foods that i loved so much. up until TODAY, i had not really had a problem with it. in my mind, i know that i was not going to be able to eat them for a while, if ever again. a co-worker brought a red velvet cake to work this morning and i cried because i knew that i could not have any. how many of you have dealt with this and how do you handle it? i feel so stupid for crying over food, but i can't help it.