Hello Friends,
My Name is Rida. I waited a whole year to get banded. Wasn't sure if I wanted to do it. On my 31st bday I weighed 287 lbs @ 5'7" and was extremely tired of the weight. So my journey begins. I got banded on October 22, 2008. I am on week 4 post-op. I hope to follow fellow banders with the same surgery date. I am also a fillmmaker, writer and screenwriter. I hope to post more here and share my own experiences.
I am afraid to weigh myself. I have anxiety with that kind of stuff. Always have. I know my clothes are looser and my family keeps on telling my face is getting skinnier. I will weight a whole month to weigh myself.
I am really happy for everyone who has started this journey. I really hated it when my skinny friends told me I was pretty, and I didn't need this. My reply, "Why don't you add an extra 100 pounds to your body and see how it is."
It's not vanity. I have never been thin. I have this sincere desire to hike, ride bikes, surf, and be more ready to participate and not have my weight be an excuse anymore. We all deserve to be the best and healthiest versions of ourselves.
So here's to positive updates, encouragement, and a blessed journey to our best selves.
With love,
Rida