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Band_Groupie

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    Got my second fill

    Highly possible...take it slowly as you ease back to food and you'll have to relearn all those chewing/eating rules. Best Wishes and hope this one's the charm! -BG
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    What happened?!?!?!?!?!?!!!!!! !!

    LOL...OR you could have asked the ladies there if someone would hold the towel up to block you while you weighed (trust me, one of them would have come forward...you know there are closet SWA members in every gym...just watch whose using the scale)...OR you could have weighed the towel later hee hee... Excellent job! Lowest weight EVER!!! Take it slowly the next couple of days...it took me a few days to loosen up a little and I've still gotten stuck a few times...I've seen so many people here who've gotten into that vicious cycle of vomiting then tighter, more vomiting, and tighter, and before they know it they can't keep their own spit down. Good job girl!!
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    7/31/09 SWA Notice

    -------------------------- SAVE THE DATE! -------------------------- SWA (Scale Whores Anonymous) -------------------------- Semi Annual Meeting -------------------------- When: Friday, August 21st Where: Right Here at LBT Bring: Your Scale, Your Spreadsheets or your mirror (Lena), and your adventures/tips to share Alright all you SWA Members (and those that need to join), I’m getting ready for our semi-annual SWA Meeting. What? You don’t know if you qualify? Well, here are the qualifications for becoming a member. You only need to say ‘Yes’ to last one* and ‘Yes’ to any one other item listed below, and you’re in: - Do you get on your scale often? This can be anywhere between every hour to more than once a week (I’m a daily girl myself). More often than that and you just need help and you’re too afflicted even for us (Don’t worry Spud.mama, getting on and off 3 times in a row to average doesn’t count as too much…hope that new scale solved this horrific problem). - Do you find yourself trying to wear (or naked) basically the same thing every time you weigh yourself (Julie.Ann…I’ve been wondering when you wash that one workout outfit for your Wii weigh-ins)? - Do you weigh yourself, or your clothing/shoes (You know who you are weighing those shoes and it doesn't matter if you don't weigh at home!) before you go to the doctor so you can figure your exact weight (I’ve found myself going to the garage to get my shoes and weigh in with everything before leaving…and I’ll even admit I won’t go to the bathroom until they weigh me)? - Do you somehow chart or spreadsheet your weight (Julie.ann & Sunshine2), or track it on your bathroom mirror (Lena)? - Do you try to somehow predict what your weight will be in the future? Those with magic crystal balls need not apply (that’s cheating and considered an unfair advantage…the rest of us are at the mercy of the Weight Loss Gods who take great pleasure in messing with our predictions daily). - *Do you NOT want help for any of the above? Meaning you’re secretly OK with the fact that you’re a Scale Whore? Then come out of the closet (or bathroom) and sign up to join us! Can you believe our first meeting was way back in February (time flies when you’re busy weighing yourself)? Meet me right here on LBT for our 2nd meeting. So shine up those scales and get your spreadsheets, charts, and mirrors (Lena) in order. Bring your tips to share (Julie.ann, please bring your three different spreadsheets to share as you’ll be covering the OCD portion of the meeting along with Sunshine2) and be ready to commiserate with other SWA members! Oh, and Lena requests that you bring a yardstick for an extra fun chair rail craft project (photos afterwards, optional). *Suggestions and Volunteers for agenda topics now being taken (you suggest it, you've volunteered)* See you here! Have a great weekend all! Here’s a recap of our first meeting for those who missed it (let me tell you, it went on and on through other’s blogs too…) 2/22/09 Scale Whore - Lap Band Surgery and Lap Band Discussion Forum
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    Pittsburgh Banders

    Hi Shassy my old friend! Just had to say WOW!!! 4 pounds below goal already and over 100 lost!!! You've done an amazing job!!! Take a bow!
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    Pittsburgh Banders

    Young- Thanks (about the blog LOL)...one gal told me that's what she read as she was recuperating...cracked me up! Glad you got to talk to the anesthesia dept. already and don't leave the hospital without some anti-nausea pills! Best wishes tomorrow; I'm sure it will all go smoothly! BTW- Your daughter is very brave...you must be really proud of her! Doc- Your time is coming! Here's hoping it's November! Keep in touch! Lifting- I can't say the wait went fast (sorry, 6 mo. only goes fast if you're in a coma), but at least the holidays will keep you busy and those last months do go quickly. Keep busy collecting recipes and making lists of thigs you'll need...keep us posted on your progress and keep reading everything here...I can't tell you how much it helped me.
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    8/3/09 Head Shots

    *Post Deleted for Lap Band Book (Before's Deleted at that time)
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    30 Sticks of Butter and Onederland

    Hope this fill really helps! Good luck! -BG
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    Should I do lapband or should I not???????????

    OK, I feel compelled to give you my experiences. I had no pre-op diet and lost 20 pounds on my own before the band (I'm a professional yo-yo dieter so this was no biggie for me and I didn't HAVE to lose anything if I didn't want to). Banding went fine and was about as I expected from the reports here. I did end up back in the hospital to check for a clot (I have asthma and was having some pain with breathing, not awful, but I wanted the doc to know about it), but after some testing everything was fine. I did lose about 15 on the post-op liquid diet (as anyone would, and yes I was starving by the end of the 3 weeks as expected) and then things stalled... Exactly as I expected it to after learning here about "bandster hell" and the period everyone goes through before enough fills/restriction. It's been 3 months and I have lost an additional 20 pounds (so 20 pre and 35 post for 55 pounds at 3 mo. post-op) and with 3 fills I now have good restriction and expect things to move a little faster, although as a low BMI'er I'm happy with 1-2 pounds a week. Have I had episodes of sliming and PB's/vomiting? Sure, but after knowing what to expect I can trace each one back to me not doing what I was supposed to...usually, chewing well enough. Restriction does exactly what they promise with the band...it makes you feel 'satisfied' on less food for a longer amount of time...PORTION CONTROL. You'll notice I didn't say 'full' as so many banter about here...'full' is a hard word to use with obese people as we associate 'full' with that thanksgiving stretch your stomach uncomfortable feeling...'satisfied' means I've pleasantly had enough and I'm NOT HUNGRY anymore and I won't be until my next meal. I don't diet anymore...I eat what my family does (except for sweets and sometimes starches although I've had plenty), but I just eat a lot less of it...PORTION CONTROL. I think if I was only allowed one thing to share with someone about the band is to spend plenty of time researching so you know where to set your expectations. I think many of the ones I see here who are unhappy it's because they had unrealistic expectations to begin with. I EXPECTED: pain after surgery, feeling starving on the post-op liquid diet, going through the discouraging months of bandster hell and waiting for real restriction to come, and my part of the puzzle in all this and what I needed to do to make this work. I had 100 pounds to lose with a 37.7 BMI and I gave myself 2 years to lose it. I had surgery the end of April and told myself that I probably wouldn't get perfect restriction until the fall holidays (I might be close now, but I may need that next fill in September, maybe more?). Could I have them make my band so tight that it hurts when I eat anything solid even when I chew...sure, and that will certainly stop you from overeating with pain (or keep you drinking your meals as some here do), but that's NOT how any doc wants your band to work (you might as well just spend your money on a liquid protein diet if you're going to do that) and it isn't how it's supposed to work. Could I 'eat around' my band and eat only soft high calorie foods like ice cream and gain weight...sure could...you can 'eat around' any WLS. Could I eat more than I currently do now until my pouch is overfull and I get that stretch the stomach thanksgiving full feeling and the band makes me stop because I feel like I'm going to vomit if I take another bite...sure I could eat more at each meal than I do until I got that hard stop feeling...but here's the amazing part with the band...I don't want or need to anymore...NO food is off limits for me and I never feel deprived and hungry all the time like I did on every other diet I've been on. Does head hunger get the better of me sometimes and do I make bad choices...sure I do, but even that is getting easier with time...let's face it, if we weren't all food addicts with head hunger issues, then we wouldn't be here. I'm willing to continue my efforts that I need to work on because I finally have some help that's not a temporary fix. Sorry for the ramble, but I thought you might need another 'true story'. Good luck with your decision, as WLS certainly isn't for everyone and even I never thought until about a year 1/2 ago that it would be my answer either. -BG PS- I've been thin and fat more times than anyone ever should, but these last few weeks when I saw 200, I knew it was for the last time...I LOVE my band. Ooops- I forgot...WELCOME TO LBT!!! Keep reading and keep in mind that most of those long-term banders who are doing so well with their bands aren't here anymore...they're out living life with gusto...LBT is for information and support, so many people with problems turn here and many like me who are going through the process normally just need support or want to vent for a moment about 'not losing weight this week' are here too. Take it all in and you'll do great.
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    Horrible few days!!!

    What exactly did the surgeon do wrong that caused the actual slip (besides the misread in the fluoro that didn't show the slip)? Good luck! -BG
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    Sunny Days

    Yeah, there's a disconnect between how long you have to exercise to lose a pound and how little extra you need to eat to gain one...no wonder we're fat LOL! -BG
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    back pain

    Please call your surgeon's office and let them know about the pain. I haven't heard of this before (stomach/band yes, back no).
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    First fill

    Sounds like a perfect fill! Wish my doc had the barium setup in the office...what a great way to get to the perfect spot fast! -BG
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    Enjoying Lower Calorie Summer Cocktails

    Thanks for sharing!
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    Beer drinkers come here please!!!

    My doc is also "Nothing is off limits" guy and carbonation was OK after week 12 (and no drinking right ontop of food, as usual). He says the belching is the only problem as some find the belching painful (I belch more than I ever have anyway) and that carbonation won't 'stretch' anything. I've had beer with no problem...I'll have to say I broke that rule and tried to have one when I was out to dinner this weekend and as I just had a fill I couldn't drink much and it started hurting ontop of the food (had no problem before I ate), but that would have happened with any liquid backing things up...my fault.
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    Pittsburgh Banders

    Hey Young- I didn't end up selecting Magee, I only went to their initial seminar (I selected AGH; I went to 3 Centers of Excellent hospitals in Pgh before selecting). There are others here who went to Magee...just do a search; you can even do a search for your doc's name. Magee has a good reputation and a huge bariatric center so you're in good hands. Nausea was my biggest fear. I talked to everyone I could get my hands on the day of the surgery about my extreme nausea (I can't watch 3-D movies or watch my kids playing video games without feeling sick LOL). The most important person to talk with is the anesthesiologist (I talked to his resident first, and then him right before surgery...just scare him to death with stories of how easily you get sick and they'll give you something...it also helps if you have blood-relatives who get sick with anesthesia, which I did). He gave me several preventatives during surgery and I did fine. I was the first surgery of the day and later in the day they did give me a shot for nausea as I had a bad episode when she asked me to get up to pee for the first time (they actually ended up having to cath me...NO big deal at all). I also stayed overnight and asked them for an anti-nausea medicine to take home...ASK FOR ONE!!! Even though I didn't need it the first week post-op I was so glad I had one on hand. It takes a minimum of 6 weeks for all the internal stuff to heal and you don't want to be vomiting during that time. I get migraines and even though I had them under control with a preventative med, I did get one a few weeks post op and was so glad I had the anti-nausea meds as I was heaving (it's not something you want to have to put a call in for and then go to the store, or worse yet, have it be the weekend...when you need it, you need it NOW!). I have a blog here on LBT where I try to be informative as I'm a detail person (link below in my sig). Each blog is dated so it would be easy for you to read about my surgery experiences or anything else you want (just know some entries are just about daily shenanigans in my life). Just go to the blogs and click on the calendar; April 22 was my surgery date, then look for my name or the blog name "The Sweet Spot" Band_Groupie. Let me know if you have any more questions. You'll do great! Good luck and keep me posted on your progress! -BG
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    Pittsburgh Banders

    Hey gals! I'm in the Burbs, just north of Pittsburgh. I started this 'journey' last summer and got banded the end of April (I chose AGH). I'm down 33 pounds since surgery and over 50 total. The time I spent researching things here was invaluable to me. Each doc seems to have a different pre and immediately post op diet, but the lifetime diet is generally similar (Protein first about 3 oz. then veggies/fruit, about 1- 1 1/2C TTl). You'll find a whole range of diets Banders are on here by choice; some are on WW or Atkins and others chose to continue liquid Protein. I had no pre-op diet and a strict 3 week post-op diet of Clear liquids and skim milk. I've kept to my goal of making the lifetime diet not a 'diet' (I'm a past yo-yoer and have done well dieting, until they end LOL), meaning I almost always eat exactly what my family is having, just a lot less of it. It generally takes a few fills before the band starts doing anything for you, so hang in there. Good luck to you and send me a PM if you need any help! -BG
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    Labor Day Challenge for Bunny Bandsters

    Samanthazzz- You're doing great! I've been averaging a tiny bit over a pound for the last 8 weeks and I'm happy with that! Labor Day Challenge for Bunny Bandsters! Bunny's name -----------Target loss ------ Start weight ----- Current weight --- Target Weight Sept. 7 Band_Groupie ------------ 15lbs -------------- 203 --------------- 196 ------------ 188 soon2befit ---------------- 25lbs -------------- 261.5 ------------ 256 -----------236.5 hopeful41411 ------------ 20lbs -------------- 253.8 ------------- 253.8 --------233.8 smilan--------------------- 20lbs -------------- 218 --------------- 216 -------------198 trobison------------------- 15lbs -------------- 221 --------------- 213 -------------206 myturn2bhappy ---------- 15lbs -------------- 282 --------------- 282 -------------267 WannaBe1/2TheWoman - 20lbs ------------- 230.6 ------------- 217.2 --------210.6 Butterfly64 ---------------- 15lbs -------------- 231 --------------- 230 ------------216 MrsMitch ------------------ 20lbs -------------- 232 ---------------- 232 ------------212 doodlebug11-------------- 15lbs ------------- 192.5 ------------- 189.5 --------- 177.5 size6----------------------- 11lbs -------------(-)11lbs ---------- (-)3.4lbs ----(-)11lbs TerriLynne----------------- 15lbs -------------- 282.2 ------------- 282.2 -------267.2 txdj ------------------------ 18lbs -------------- 183 -------------- 183 -------------165 1want2bthin -------------- 15lbs -------------- 202 --------------- 202 ------------187 ALuv82 -------------------- 30lbs -------------- 265 --------------- 260 ------------235 tbryant1216--------------- 15lbs -------------- 260 --------------- 260 ------------245
  18. Wow! Interesting story, and I'm so sorry it happened to you. Hope it 'passes' quickly! Good to know we can take an NSAID in an emergency! -BG
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    Weight loss after Lap Band

    Welcome to LBT Amanda! Take a look at the 'before'/'after' thread on the home page for some pics and inspiration. Make sure you join the Sept. group (Groups, 2009, September). I'm 3 months post-op and 52 pounds down (33 since surgery). I have good restriction now after my third fill. Best Wishes! -BG
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    Who Knew Those Unladylike Toots Would FEEL SO GOOD

    LOL! Amen! I belch more with each fill; since the last one I can't stop. DH just asked me last night...'why do you belch so much...what causes that?'
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    Nervous

    If you're not nervous, you're not normal. Let's face it, not only is this a major surgery, but it's a major, permanent change to your lifestyle. I'll have to say that I was also as excited as I was nervous. Best thing I've ever done. 3 mo. post op and I've lost 33 pounds since surgery, 52 total. Best wishes! -BG
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    Working it all out

    Six sizes smaller?! WOW! That must feel great!!! Yeah, welcome to the lower BMI category...the weight loss is slower, but that's how you know you're getting there, right? Happy writing! -BG
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    7/30/09 Celebrate Good Times, Come On!

    *Post Deleted for Lap Band Book
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    7/29/09 Restriction; an Urban Legend?

    *Post Deleted for Lap Band Book
  25. You're always so uplifting! Thanks DB! You're weight loss has been great! Keep inspiring us! -BG

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