Hey Mike,
I decided to get my lapband about 6 months before my surgery date. I had started to have some health issues just like you. I have mild sleep apnea, swelling of my legs and ankles when ever I work my 12 hour shifts, severe reflux, and back pain. I knew it was only going to get worse. Also I decided it was not fair to my children to lose their mother at an early age or worse yet burden them in their adulthood.
I work at a large medical center, so I went to a meeting that the surgeons hold twice a month and heard the cold hard facts about obesity and health. I knew I was done with the "old way of eating" and since I had tried every other weight loss program known to man I decided on surgery.
Now I am just 7 days post op and in a lot of discomfort but this to shall pass!Research, Research, Research! But hey you deserve to be healthier and around for your 5 year old.
Good Luck
Stephanie:thumbup: