Hugs to you!!! Don't fret about Thanksgiving. Just be mindful of what you put on your plate. I don't count calories at a holiday meal, but I limit myself to ONE holiday meal! Like someone else said, it's a holiDAY, not a holiWEEK.
First of all, call around and find a fill doctor/fill center. Find out how much it will cost for a new previously banded patient. It may not be as much as you think. Then I'd ask for money for Christmas and put it toward the fill! And, while you're on the phone, chat up the receptionist and see if she can give you some written diet material.
You can also google diet plans and get some ideas.
You already know that eating out is not the best plan, but sometimes it's the only option. I get that. My daughters are on the $1 menu diet, as well! It's just part of college!
If you're eating in the car, that means fast food. And, working with that, take a few minutes to figure out which fast food is healthiest. Then make sure you eat only the healthiest thing on the menu. For instance, Taco Bell has a nutrition calculator on their website. A grilled chicken fresco taco is only 170 calories, 4 grams fat, and 12 grams Protein. Not bad for junk food! Order 1 or even 2, and that's all! No sides or extras, and NO soft drinks. It will take some research, but you can work out a plan that works for you. Write it down. Make a list of "acceptable" fast foods and keep it in the car. Know ahead of time what you can order!!
Go to one of the food tracking websites and track your intake. You have to know where you are before you can figure out where you're going. I use www.livestrong.com You can figure out how many calories to eat, and track your Water intake and exercise, too.
Now, you've moved to sunny Florida! Yay!!! That means the weather is much better than Wisconsin, so get outside! Walk everywhere you can walk.
You have done great so far! I am excited for you. You have taken the right steps to get healthier, and you've come a LONG way! You can do this! I wish you all the best!