Thanks everybody.
Old Lady isn't an insult in our social group, it's a compliment:)
In context: "Bro, don't take this as an insult, but your old lady is hot."
"All right, you're cut off now Bear."
Anyway.
I'm most worried about the depression. She's already pretty prone to depression anyway.
I am aware how weight loss can improve peoples lives. I am in a personal training class and will be assisting her with resistance training so she can maintain tone while losing the weight.
As for the travel response though, we already travel several times a year, and the food is a big part of that. Trying piroshkis at Pike Street in Seattle, the buffets and the Pepper Mill in Vegas. It is going to be quite a change for both of us. Much of our relationship has centered around food.
I am supporting her in this and it is her decision, I just worry also and want to understand as much as I can.