Hi, Pat:
I'm 51 and was just banded on 9/3/8. So far, I'm down 25 lbs from a starting weight of 224. I made sure I followed the pre- and post-surgery eating plans. I was afraid to do this at my age too. I recommend having the surgery. I don't get so winded just by walking or going up stairs. I had minimal pain and was back to work within 1 week. Good luck to you in your decision.