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NeonRaven8919

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    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from summerseeker in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    NickelChip, I love your posts! You always have a way with words!
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    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in Size 24 to 14 in 7 months!   
    I'm wearing a new pair of jeans that are a size 14 (uk or size 10us)
    I have NEVER been a size 14 in my life!
    When I was a kid, I went from a kids 6 to a juniors 11 to a 16! Even when moving to the UK as a teenager and taking into account size diversions, I've never been this size.
    I'm not supposed to wear jeans to work, but my manager was so happy for me, she let me today! (I guess also because my last week is next week) but still.
    It's been an amazing 7 months! Three years ago, I lost my stepfather, two years ago i lost my mother and I was at my lowest point mentally and couldn't imagine light at the end of that tunnel, and now I'm happier and healthier than I thought I could ever be again!
    Thanks to everyone on this forum as well when I've spiraled and you've kept me inspired.



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    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in Size 24 to 14 in 7 months!   
    I'm wearing a new pair of jeans that are a size 14 (uk or size 10us)
    I have NEVER been a size 14 in my life!
    When I was a kid, I went from a kids 6 to a juniors 11 to a 16! Even when moving to the UK as a teenager and taking into account size diversions, I've never been this size.
    I'm not supposed to wear jeans to work, but my manager was so happy for me, she let me today! (I guess also because my last week is next week) but still.
    It's been an amazing 7 months! Three years ago, I lost my stepfather, two years ago i lost my mother and I was at my lowest point mentally and couldn't imagine light at the end of that tunnel, and now I'm happier and healthier than I thought I could ever be again!
    Thanks to everyone on this forum as well when I've spiraled and you've kept me inspired.



  4. Like
    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in Size 24 to 14 in 7 months!   
    I'm wearing a new pair of jeans that are a size 14 (uk or size 10us)
    I have NEVER been a size 14 in my life!
    When I was a kid, I went from a kids 6 to a juniors 11 to a 16! Even when moving to the UK as a teenager and taking into account size diversions, I've never been this size.
    I'm not supposed to wear jeans to work, but my manager was so happy for me, she let me today! (I guess also because my last week is next week) but still.
    It's been an amazing 7 months! Three years ago, I lost my stepfather, two years ago i lost my mother and I was at my lowest point mentally and couldn't imagine light at the end of that tunnel, and now I'm happier and healthier than I thought I could ever be again!
    Thanks to everyone on this forum as well when I've spiraled and you've kept me inspired.



  5. Like
    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from summerseeker in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    NickelChip, I love your posts! You always have a way with words!
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    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Dub in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    Check out my butt in this plane seat! There's some chair left over! About an inch. I'm counting it as a win

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    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in Size 24 to 14 in 7 months!   
    I'm wearing a new pair of jeans that are a size 14 (uk or size 10us)
    I have NEVER been a size 14 in my life!
    When I was a kid, I went from a kids 6 to a juniors 11 to a 16! Even when moving to the UK as a teenager and taking into account size diversions, I've never been this size.
    I'm not supposed to wear jeans to work, but my manager was so happy for me, she let me today! (I guess also because my last week is next week) but still.
    It's been an amazing 7 months! Three years ago, I lost my stepfather, two years ago i lost my mother and I was at my lowest point mentally and couldn't imagine light at the end of that tunnel, and now I'm happier and healthier than I thought I could ever be again!
    Thanks to everyone on this forum as well when I've spiraled and you've kept me inspired.



  8. Like
    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in Size 24 to 14 in 7 months!   
    I'm wearing a new pair of jeans that are a size 14 (uk or size 10us)
    I have NEVER been a size 14 in my life!
    When I was a kid, I went from a kids 6 to a juniors 11 to a 16! Even when moving to the UK as a teenager and taking into account size diversions, I've never been this size.
    I'm not supposed to wear jeans to work, but my manager was so happy for me, she let me today! (I guess also because my last week is next week) but still.
    It's been an amazing 7 months! Three years ago, I lost my stepfather, two years ago i lost my mother and I was at my lowest point mentally and couldn't imagine light at the end of that tunnel, and now I'm happier and healthier than I thought I could ever be again!
    Thanks to everyone on this forum as well when I've spiraled and you've kept me inspired.



  9. Like
    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in Size 24 to 14 in 7 months!   
    I'm wearing a new pair of jeans that are a size 14 (uk or size 10us)
    I have NEVER been a size 14 in my life!
    When I was a kid, I went from a kids 6 to a juniors 11 to a 16! Even when moving to the UK as a teenager and taking into account size diversions, I've never been this size.
    I'm not supposed to wear jeans to work, but my manager was so happy for me, she let me today! (I guess also because my last week is next week) but still.
    It's been an amazing 7 months! Three years ago, I lost my stepfather, two years ago i lost my mother and I was at my lowest point mentally and couldn't imagine light at the end of that tunnel, and now I'm happier and healthier than I thought I could ever be again!
    Thanks to everyone on this forum as well when I've spiraled and you've kept me inspired.



  10. Like
    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in Size 24 to 14 in 7 months!   
    I'm wearing a new pair of jeans that are a size 14 (uk or size 10us)
    I have NEVER been a size 14 in my life!
    When I was a kid, I went from a kids 6 to a juniors 11 to a 16! Even when moving to the UK as a teenager and taking into account size diversions, I've never been this size.
    I'm not supposed to wear jeans to work, but my manager was so happy for me, she let me today! (I guess also because my last week is next week) but still.
    It's been an amazing 7 months! Three years ago, I lost my stepfather, two years ago i lost my mother and I was at my lowest point mentally and couldn't imagine light at the end of that tunnel, and now I'm happier and healthier than I thought I could ever be again!
    Thanks to everyone on this forum as well when I've spiraled and you've kept me inspired.



  11. Like
    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in Size 24 to 14 in 7 months!   
    I'm wearing a new pair of jeans that are a size 14 (uk or size 10us)
    I have NEVER been a size 14 in my life!
    When I was a kid, I went from a kids 6 to a juniors 11 to a 16! Even when moving to the UK as a teenager and taking into account size diversions, I've never been this size.
    I'm not supposed to wear jeans to work, but my manager was so happy for me, she let me today! (I guess also because my last week is next week) but still.
    It's been an amazing 7 months! Three years ago, I lost my stepfather, two years ago i lost my mother and I was at my lowest point mentally and couldn't imagine light at the end of that tunnel, and now I'm happier and healthier than I thought I could ever be again!
    Thanks to everyone on this forum as well when I've spiraled and you've kept me inspired.



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    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in Size 24 to 14 in 7 months!   
    I'm wearing a new pair of jeans that are a size 14 (uk or size 10us)
    I have NEVER been a size 14 in my life!
    When I was a kid, I went from a kids 6 to a juniors 11 to a 16! Even when moving to the UK as a teenager and taking into account size diversions, I've never been this size.
    I'm not supposed to wear jeans to work, but my manager was so happy for me, she let me today! (I guess also because my last week is next week) but still.
    It's been an amazing 7 months! Three years ago, I lost my stepfather, two years ago i lost my mother and I was at my lowest point mentally and couldn't imagine light at the end of that tunnel, and now I'm happier and healthier than I thought I could ever be again!
    Thanks to everyone on this forum as well when I've spiraled and you've kept me inspired.



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    NeonRaven8919 reacted to NickelChip in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    "Surgery is cheating? Oh no! I didn't know there were rules. Have I forfeited my eligibility to be awarded a weight loss trophy? I guess I'll just have to take looking good in my clothing and not dying prematurely as a consolation prize."
    "You can either be supportive of my decision or you can stop talking because I didn't ask for your opinion and am not seeking advice at this time."
    "Oh, is today the day we're sharing what we disagree with about each other's life decisions? Hold on, let me go get my list. I've got a few things for you that I'm sure you'll want to hear."
    The bottom line is, you have the right to live your life the way you see fit. The people making comments like this are not trying to be helpful. They are trying, even if they don't realize it themselves, to control you and take away your right to do what you feel is best for you. When you try to explain and convince them, you play into the idea that they have a right to tell you what to do or that you need their permission. What they don't expect is for you to have the confidence to laugh in their face at their audacity and tell them point blank to get back in their own f*ing lane. And they will not like it one bit when you do, but it'll feel pretty fantastic on your end.
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    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from summerseeker in All aboard the TRAIN to Medellin Colombia for Plastics   
    Lol! My knees too!
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    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from Dub in GET OUT AND VOTE!!!!   
    I did! I was able to get my mail-in vote sent off last week! I was up all night watching the election but tapped out just after they called Georgia, (4AM or so) Crazy close edge-of-your seat type stuff!
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    NeonRaven8919 reacted to WendyJane in Where’s the weight loss?!   
    You said that you stopped eating meat, are you taking Protein supplements like shakes? You should be having a high protein diet and not so much in carbs, and some veggies are carbs, like peas for example. fruit has natural sugar in them, you should be focusing on protein.
    I strongly urge you to talk to your dietician with your surgical team, and make a better diet plan than what you are on.
    Something you can do in the meantime is to look at the bariatric bowls and plates available on Amazon, and look at the portion sizes of fruits and veggies, then look at the size of the plate for protein.
    It may not be what you are eating, but could be your portion size. But based on your initial post, you are eating fruits and salads, you are not focused on protein. I say again, check with your nutrition specialist with your surgical team.
    I will say what others have, 60 pounds is a good amount of weight to lose. Remember that your surgery is a tool, and not a cure. It takes time to gain the weight, it will take time to lose it, when you are eating correctly and as your nutritionist says, contact your surgical team.
    Congratulations on your journey, you are doing great so far!!
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    NeonRaven8919 reacted to SpartanMaker in Where’s the weight loss?!   
    But you are smaller!
    By my calculation, you've lost ~15% of your overall bodyweight in just 3 months! That's an amazing amount of weight loss. If you were thinking you'd be at a normal weight in 3 months, that's just not even close to realistic or in fact possible considering where you started. Most people will continue to lose for at least a year, some for much, much longer.
    You're doing great so far and as long as you keep following the plan outlined by your team, you'll continue to lose for some time to come.
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    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from GmaBecks in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    Yes, this is the easy way compared to all the failed dieting. Because it works. If dieting worked, it would be easy. You have a medical problem that requires treatment. This is one of the most successful treatments for that medical problem. Simple.
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    NeonRaven8919 reacted to BlondePatriotInCDA in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    I would say based on your responses you hope that they never have to go to the doctor for colds, pain, broken bones...etc...after all those are all medical interventions for things you/your body can handle overtime and with enough brain power over it! After all, you wouldn't want them to take "the easy way out."
    I'd go on to say doctors don't prescribe surgical procedures for the easy way out, nor do insurance companies approve and pay for surgeries for the same reason. Lastly, I'd add if they don't have anything nice to say you don't want to hear it - you're doing what you feel is right for you and you don't need negative comments on your journey to better health.
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    NeonRaven8919 reacted to BigSue in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    I first looked into WLS about 15 years earlier. I went to an information session and a consultation with a surgeon, and my mom came with me. My mom cried and begged me not to get the surgery. Thought it was too dangerous and I should do it "naturally." Obviously, that didn't work and I ended up getting the surgery anyway, after 15 more years living with obesity. That was a big part of why I didn't tell anyone -- I made an informed decision and didn't want to give anyone else the chance to talk me out of it.
    Exactly... When people get nosey about how I lost weight, my go-to answer is, "I made a lot of lifestyle changes." Even though I did get the surgery as a tool, it is 100% true that I made a lot of lifestyle changes. I worked hard to get to my current weight, and I work hard to maintain it. Every single day, I have to prioritize my diet and fitness. I got up early this morning to do a 5:00 am Orange Theory workout before work. I've logged my food every day for over 5 years. The surgery didn't do that for me.
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    NeonRaven8919 reacted to SpartanMaker in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    I think it's a sad state of affairs when we feel like we have to hide our decisions from others because of how we know others will react. I'm not judging anyone that makes that choice since I did it too. I told my family, but specifically decided not to tell my co-workers since I was expecting people to say dumb things like this.
    The cheating comment I find specifically odd, personally. To me this was life or death, and I chose life. It definitely wasn't some game where the concept of cheating might be meaningful. I feel like it would be no different than if someone were to say to me that I "cheated" when I had open heart surgery. How could you even think that? My choices were either have the surgery, or die.
    As to weight loss surgery being "the easy way", as all of us here know there is nothing easy about this. Those of us that have reached our goal weights know that the surgery was just a tool, but the important change is what had to happen between my ears. Nothing about that was or is easy. It's still hard work every. single. day.
    I also wanted to comment on this:
    I can virtually guarantee you I eat better and workout harder than your son. I NEVER would have been able to workout as hard while I was still obese. It took losing almost 100 pounds before I could even really walk much. Now I run 40+ miles a week. It's hard for people that are not obese to understand just how hard even simple movement can be. Weight loss surgery was the catalyst that allowed me to be where I'm at today.
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    NeonRaven8919 reacted to GmaBecks in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    Thank you to everyone who has responded! I wrote down all of these wise words. I think the hardest person for me to face is my son who BEGGED me to not do the surgery. He swore if I came and lived with he and his wife for a few months and ate what they ate and worked out like they do, he could have me in shape and down 100 lbs without the surgery. (I think he wanted free childcare as well). I’m pretty sure he hasn’t paid attention to my weight loss struggles for the 40+ years of his life. I love these responses and intend to use them with family and friends the next time one of those passively aggressive snarks are made. Thank you thank you. It only matters that I know that this is hard work butI’m doing it for ME!
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    NeonRaven8919 reacted to Mspretty86 in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    @summerseeker I hollered laughing 🤣😂😂. I thought I was the only one who lied to some people I tell them "oh yea I get up and walk 5 miles everyday" that's how I done it 😂😂😂. Please get out of my face nosy judgy people
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    NeonRaven8919 reacted to summerseeker in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    Its not easy, even I thought it would be easier than it was. I thought I was in the know too. Maintenance isn't easy. So they are not friends if they dont back you.
    I told my husband and son and my two besties from our ancient school days. I was backed by them. I told no one else until weight loss began to show. I only told three people who asked how I had done it and they were very obese too. The rest got the ' oh I have been walking a lot lately' or I stopped eating carbs. Judgers will always judge, its human nature.
    Wise words
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    NeonRaven8919 got a reaction from GmaBecks in What to say to friends who think that surgery is “cheating” or lazy   
    Yes, this is the easy way compared to all the failed dieting. Because it works. If dieting worked, it would be easy. You have a medical problem that requires treatment. This is one of the most successful treatments for that medical problem. Simple.

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