I just have a question for some people, okay so,,, some of my family know about my surgery and that i was banded the ones i know who would support me i told, the ones who think that its laziness that i dident loose the weight myself.The others i wont tell tell i know that i can deal with their negativity. The only problem is my bf, we have ben dating for just ver 4 months, i would have told him, if maybe he asked what i was going for, but he never did until today 5 days after surgery. He was away at work while i had my surgery he was supportive, but when he txt me today and asked me what i went for surgery for i couldent answer, i havent yet, i dont know what to say, im affraid of what he will say, what i keep running over in my head is why did he never ask what i was going for???