Dear Mom2Twins,
You poor dear. You are definitely not getting the care that you deserve.
The last 2 fills I've had, I had problems with vomiting and being too tight. I could always drink fluids however. When I called my surgeon, she immediately wanted me in the office and took out the Fluid. I also take quite a few days after a fill to "calm down" and be able to eat normally.
After a fill in December, I had difficulties eating and actually began vomitting a few weeks ago. I travel quite a bit for my job, so I just went on a liquid diet and tried to "grin and bear it." When I finally called my surgeon she was upset that I didn't come in on day 1 of distress. I went in on Monday for an upper GI and it appears my band did slip - possibly because I waited too long with too much vomiting. She removed all of the fluid from my band and I am now back on a liquid diet for a few weeks before another upper GI. My surgeon has called me twice at home since Monday to see how I am.
In your case, your doctor seems the exact opposite of mine. If you can't switch your care to another surgeon, I would definitely request a conference to discuss the concerns you have with your care. If you are not naturally assertive, you may want to take your spouse, or a friend with you who will emphasize the issues you have.
Good luck.... A mom of twins certainly needs to be well!