I'm about 4 days post op and can't wipe myself after I pee. My mom is a nurse and me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years and its not too embarrassing. Also had to have the nurses in the hospital wipe me as well. Obviously haven't pooped yet but hopefully will be able to wipe myself by then. I think I cant do it because i have short arms lol and trying to gives me sharp pain in my abdomen. So as much as I'd rather do it myself i really cant yet.