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FifiLux
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FifiLux reacted to SecretAgentDD in 1 yr post op - photo evidence :)
You look great. You must also feel great! Congratulations on a job well done.
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FifiLux reacted to JennyBeez in 1 yr post op - photo evidence :)
Without the face showing, you legitimately look like a different person. Even the confidence change in the way you stand is so different. Congrats, you really look great! (And those pants are chic!)
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FifiLux reacted to Arabesque in 1 yr post op - photo evidence :)
Looking amazing. (Love the outfit too.) Congratulations @FifiLux. Whoo hoo!
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FifiLux reacted to Spinoza in 1 yr post op - photo evidence :)
Absolutely amazing transformation. That's what we're here for. Well done you. I so love before and after photos - thank you for sharing!
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FifiLux reacted to Lilia_90 in 1 yr post op - photo evidence :)
You look amazing! Congrats on your hard work and success!
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FifiLux got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in The Holiday Shop
That is great and you will have a fabulous time in Greece.
In another few weeks the clothes you bought will probably be too big 😁
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FifiLux reacted to ShoppGirl in Report Your WINS ..What is your today's win??🥇
Okay so tonight was night two of my walking exercise and I got only two minutes down the road and it started to rain. I turned around and made it just before it poured. Well I’m the past that would’ve been a perfect excuse for me to not do it and a couple more things like that and it never would have become a habit but not tonight. I stayed in my clothes and kept checking outside until It slowed to a sprinkle again and went and did my other 25 minutes.
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FifiLux got a reaction from Arabesque in Off & on
After a year I have problems sometimes where the food just will not go down or if it does it is uncomfrotable.
Beef burgers seem to be my main issue, no matter how small a bite I take or chew it, I have realised that about 70% of the time they don't agree with me. I have made chicken dishes and one night able to eat without an issue and the following day having another portion it immediately comes back up or if it goes down it does so uncomfortably.
Last time with the burger was when I was out for dinner with a work colleague a couple of weeks ago and he got so worried about me as he said I literally went sickly white and looked like I needed to either vomit or pass out. I just took deep breaths for a few minutes and it (and the feeling) eventually passed but I think I will avoid burgers when out of the house for a while anyway.
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FifiLux got a reaction from ShoppGirl in Report Your WINS ..What is your today's win??🥇
30 minutes is great going - a win!
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FifiLux got a reaction from ShoppGirl in Almost a year out
Congratulations on having the surgery and your loss.
I agree with the other comments above.
Don't see this is a restrictive diet as that will possibly become unsustainable thinking and lead to bringing back bad habits and what might be a cheat day becomes cheat days/weeks/months. I believe it is about finding balance and enjoyment in what you are doing, enjoy the food you are eating but obviously in smaller portions and try to make the healthier choice between fried and grilled foods etc. I also plan my grocery shopping based on what I want to cook and eat for a week and don't buy off list, that way when at home I don't have anything 'bold' to eat and I am not going to go to the shop just for a bag of popcorn (boy do I miss popcorn).
I am not one who enjoys exercise and tried gyms, yoga, running, zumba before over the years but I have found over the last few months that once I start a pilates class, aqua aerobics or go for a walk that I am more relaxed so I think finding an activity you like and trying to keep to some sort of routine will help as well, for me that is paying in advance for classes, so I can't opt out
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FifiLux got a reaction from draikaina8503 in August Surgery buddies
I use the grocery ones, I think they are all pure enough without having to pay a months salary for some gimmicky one
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FifiLux got a reaction from draikaina8503 in August Surgery buddies
I use the grocery ones, I think they are all pure enough without having to pay a months salary for some gimmicky one
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FifiLux got a reaction from ShoppGirl in August Surgery buddies
I added tumeric as a spice in my Soups and soft food and added cinnamon to my yoghurts to help with inflammation - both recommended to me in the hospital and I think they helped. The hospital actually said they could be taken together as a tea but I am not a great tea drinker so went with the adding to food option.
I still take cinnamon frequently just to keep up the good habit, travel with a jar of it for adding to coffee and yoghurts if needed.
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FifiLux got a reaction from ShoppGirl in Almost a year out
Congratulations on having the surgery and your loss.
I agree with the other comments above.
Don't see this is a restrictive diet as that will possibly become unsustainable thinking and lead to bringing back bad habits and what might be a cheat day becomes cheat days/weeks/months. I believe it is about finding balance and enjoyment in what you are doing, enjoy the food you are eating but obviously in smaller portions and try to make the healthier choice between fried and grilled foods etc. I also plan my grocery shopping based on what I want to cook and eat for a week and don't buy off list, that way when at home I don't have anything 'bold' to eat and I am not going to go to the shop just for a bag of popcorn (boy do I miss popcorn).
I am not one who enjoys exercise and tried gyms, yoga, running, zumba before over the years but I have found over the last few months that once I start a pilates class, aqua aerobics or go for a walk that I am more relaxed so I think finding an activity you like and trying to keep to some sort of routine will help as well, for me that is paying in advance for classes, so I can't opt out
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FifiLux got a reaction from ShoppGirl in Almost a year out
Congratulations on having the surgery and your loss.
I agree with the other comments above.
Don't see this is a restrictive diet as that will possibly become unsustainable thinking and lead to bringing back bad habits and what might be a cheat day becomes cheat days/weeks/months. I believe it is about finding balance and enjoyment in what you are doing, enjoy the food you are eating but obviously in smaller portions and try to make the healthier choice between fried and grilled foods etc. I also plan my grocery shopping based on what I want to cook and eat for a week and don't buy off list, that way when at home I don't have anything 'bold' to eat and I am not going to go to the shop just for a bag of popcorn (boy do I miss popcorn).
I am not one who enjoys exercise and tried gyms, yoga, running, zumba before over the years but I have found over the last few months that once I start a pilates class, aqua aerobics or go for a walk that I am more relaxed so I think finding an activity you like and trying to keep to some sort of routine will help as well, for me that is paying in advance for classes, so I can't opt out
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FifiLux got a reaction from ShoppGirl in Almost a year out
Congratulations on having the surgery and your loss.
I agree with the other comments above.
Don't see this is a restrictive diet as that will possibly become unsustainable thinking and lead to bringing back bad habits and what might be a cheat day becomes cheat days/weeks/months. I believe it is about finding balance and enjoyment in what you are doing, enjoy the food you are eating but obviously in smaller portions and try to make the healthier choice between fried and grilled foods etc. I also plan my grocery shopping based on what I want to cook and eat for a week and don't buy off list, that way when at home I don't have anything 'bold' to eat and I am not going to go to the shop just for a bag of popcorn (boy do I miss popcorn).
I am not one who enjoys exercise and tried gyms, yoga, running, zumba before over the years but I have found over the last few months that once I start a pilates class, aqua aerobics or go for a walk that I am more relaxed so I think finding an activity you like and trying to keep to some sort of routine will help as well, for me that is paying in advance for classes, so I can't opt out
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FifiLux got a reaction from ShoppGirl in August Surgery buddies
I added tumeric as a spice in my Soups and soft food and added cinnamon to my yoghurts to help with inflammation - both recommended to me in the hospital and I think they helped. The hospital actually said they could be taken together as a tea but I am not a great tea drinker so went with the adding to food option.
I still take cinnamon frequently just to keep up the good habit, travel with a jar of it for adding to coffee and yoghurts if needed.
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FifiLux reacted to Bypass2Freedom in Compliments
I am definitely guilty of doing this too! It is like an instant reflex, and so hard to get out of the habit of doing!
I like the idea of smiling more...I may try to do that, as my RBF is intense 😂
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FifiLux got a reaction from Bypass2Freedom in Compliments
When a colleague or friend tells me I am looking well, which is happening more often now, I am learning simply to say "thank you" and not do a longer answer like I used to with such things as "thanks, I had a shower today" or "thanks I brushed my hair" as before if anyone said it I didn't believe them - how could they think I looked well if I didn't think or feel it? Now I know I am looking well (albeit tired) so I am learning to get comfortable with people noticing.
I wouldn't consider that I had a resting b*tch face but before I would just have a 'not interested, ignore me' resting face, now I try to remember to smile and find it is happening naturally. So when sitting on the bus or at my desk etc I have a little smile and I think that then rubs off on those around me.
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FifiLux reacted to ShoppGirl in Report Your WINS ..What is your today's win??🥇
Went to my crochet group again today and I didn’t need a nap afterwards. I’m hoping maybe I’m done with the afternoon nap stage. I plan to wake up earlier tomorrow and really try to power through again so I can hopefully get my sleep cycle back to normal. Day by day I get a little closer to my normal.
ooh and yesterday was a follow up for the muscle cramps that I got in my calf which went away with the magnesium they gave me but I kept the appt anyways because i start soft food Monday and I had questions. She said that since my pre op appt I have lost 19 pounds so that’s one month exactly and the expected loss for a revision is between 5-10 pounds month so I’m doing good.
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FifiLux got a reaction from AmberFL in 7 months post-op
Looking great and fit, you have achieved so much in a just a few months.
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FifiLux got a reaction from NeonRaven8919 in Best shoes for walking
I have slip ons, lace up sneakers, hiking boots and their sandals all of which are great for walking and standing around, be it a 5 minute or 5 hour walk. Never had issues with breaking them in.
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FifiLux reacted to ShoppGirl in Best shoes for walking
I definitely will post on here my thoughts on the HOKA brand. My husband just had the greatest idea to use bowling shoe covers so I can wear them around for more than a second without getting the bottoms too dirty. Especially since I am 3 weeks post op today and my husband wears his shoes in the house all the time 😩 I have swept the floors a few times but I know from looking at my socks that’s definitely not enough.
Ooh and a lady in my in person support group also suggested that brand. She is a year out from sleeve and walks 5 miles a day at least and she likes them. The ones that they recommend for walking on their site says “everyday running/ walking”. I know some people wear running shoes for walking and it’s fine but one article I read said that running specific shoes are designed to be lighter in weight so they have far less padding. It’s fine for short amounts of time they say but for long distances they are not the best choice.
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FifiLux got a reaction from SleeveToBypass2023 in I mean, at this point I give up trying to figure it out...
You and your body have been through a lot over the last few years.