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the prolifers may have nothing to lose but what if abortions are made illegal then the women that get pregnant will have a lot to lose because of your beliefs. I didn't say that I share all the beliefs discussed in those articles...did I?

When I typed "Life Begins at Conception" into google I got 559,000 results...however, when I typed "Life doesn't Begin at Conception" I get 6,150,000 results. Inconsistancy in the “life begins at conception” argument God's Conception Magic Act Anyways...I just found the first one interesting and I really enjoyed the second one lol. You cannot force everyone to believe in your own religious mumbo jumbo...Not everyon shares your beliefs...not everyone is religious at all.

Thank you so much. My husband is in the Army so I am pretty far from my family. Though I talk to my mom and dad several times a day on the phone. They wouldn't even allow my husband time off so I had to take myself and my son to the ER when I was losing the baby. I wasn't very far along, but I already loved my baby...already talked to my tummy and already dreamed of the face I would see in 9 months. My heart aches for a baby that I never even got to see, feel or even hear...not even a heartbeat.

Well said as always!

As I have chosen pro choice :purplebananna:~

So then the prolifers should be called antiabortion and not pro life because prolife could refer to anything that is living...

I'm pretty sure it wasn't an open adoption...otherwise she would know the location of the child she adopted out...it is no longer her child...she gave up that right when she gave up the child.

just because someone thinks that a woman should have the right to do what she thinks is best for her...doesn't mean that they are supportive/for abortion...it should just be an option...it's not like were sitting around pregnant women and saying abort that baby! It's the only way!!!! DO IT!!!

would it really be fair for her child that she gave up to be hunted down...she gave the child up and if the child wants to find her than that should be the childs right...

If you continue to call pro choice people pro abortion or anti life then don't complain when pro choicers call you all antichoice.....

I never said that you said it was 100%. A lot of women that are raped don't immediately report the rape either.

right before my friend had her abortion they listened to the heartbeat and they handed her a picture of the fetus before aborting. So...you don't think people may say they were raped and create a paper trail? It is possible. A lot of people would disagree that they'll take it...even when there will still be abortions. Most pro lifers I know want it 100% illegal...just a thought.

High five!!! Way to go on the first step to changing your life :eek:. It's worth it and it looks like you're doing well!!!

As soon as I am comfortably into a smaller size my bigger clothes get sold or donated. I find that if I don't have them I try harder to stay in the smaller size since I have nothing to fall back into. As for the spouse. I love my husband and he is heavy. It is his choice to lose weight, but I am always here to support him. I don't push him or try to make him feel bad because I know how it feels because that's what people would do to me...good luck!

Yeah how would they tell if the person was actually raped and what not? Who would determine who was lying and who was being honest...?

How can you be 100% pro life but then say it's okay to kill (in your words) a baby if it was conceived after a rape or incest...? Why is that okay with you?

Yeah but it's not the illegal under all that was highest....it was the legal under certain. The legal under any was still higher than the illegal under all....so if you think about it the vote that raised it was the pro lifes that are partly pro choice if you give them the right circumstance...so if you add up all the legal legal legal ones they far out do the illegal ones....just an observation

Thank you. The doctor's told me that everything look okay and that they want me to wait to try again until July or August...Good point with the IVF...

I will thank you so much All of you

Thank you Gadget. I spoke with a Grieve counselor at the hospital today...she gave me her number if I need to talk again...also I have my mom and hubby to talk to.

We may not all control what happens to us, but we can control how we react to what happens...I have my moments, but I am trying to keep it together

Sometimes it helps to have something put bluntly instead of dressing up the elephant in the room and covering it with a sheet...sometimes we all need that little push of reality that keeps us grounded and concentrated on what we have...not what we lost.

Well put...it still sucks though

Don't be sorry...today I was at the OB/GYN to have an ultrasound...and a lady looked at me and asked me how far along I was...I told her I would have been 5 weeks and she saw my son and said aww look he knows that there's another little one on the way...I just smiled and walked away...I could have went off on her, but would good would that have done...don't be sorry for being who you are

The miscarraige that I had was because the egg or sperm had defects...so my baby was naturally "aborted"...I was just saying that how is it different...just because it's natural makes it ok?