I am 45, been on anti-depressants off and on for years. Food is an addiction and it is a vicious cycle. I vote you really take a good look at getting a band. I just go mine on Aug.27 and I feel a real sense of peace knowing that I am not alone in the fight anymore. I have a little "cop" inside of me that is going to help me move forward and gain control of my addiction. If I can come off of my meds too, that will be a big bonus. Since being banded I have already dropped my dose and I feel fine. Everything in life happens for a reason and maybe your DR. suggesting this at this time was the universes way of throwing you a life preserver. My 3 Daughters are soooo proud that I have taken this step. Therapy is great but I have been there and done that with 4 different councellors over the years, not one of them was ever able to give me the answer. Your own free will is yours entirely. Best of luck, and just know that you can change your life if it is your wish to do so!
KIM