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wisdom would be to folow your doctors orders and god will lead him you know how tey say the father knows best he does.

Create Your Own Ticker this is my new ticer ai am glad i was finally able to post one able to join you all i am 2 days post op

well i know what you mean my husband was all for my wls but my mom sho si s very important part of my life but was totally against my band i eventuall told her i thought i might not do it and a couple days before i told her i was doing it just in case so she would not be mad a t everyone esle in case jsut incase. in the meantime she happened to see and ophra show that eased her mind so maybe you can get up online and show your mom it is a simple procedure wit minimal risk and tell her you will have the best doctor with you cause jesus will be with you . 2days post good luck

hey guys i am now 2 days post op feeling ok little depressed butgetting over that with prayer and an awsome family and you all thanks for being there.:wink2::wink:

well ijus t got band on the 20th so far ok a ittle depression but it is slswly goning away i am praying that thisisthe best thing for me so i just need to learn to live with it

:lol:WOW WOW this is what i am talking about i have atleast a 100 pounds to lose and looking foward to joining the club WOW to you all i proud and happy for you WOW. Thanks for this thread it is great. by the way i get banded tomorrow morning send up prayers:tt1:

well guys tomorrow morning i will be banded and i am excited and worried i am asking for all yur prayers that everything goes well and that the band is my help will try and report on thursday evening how it worked out . love to all

WELL TODAY IS MONDAY:biggrin: AND WEDNESDAY MRONING I WILL BE A BANDER :frown: YOU TALKING ABOUT EXCITED AND LAST MINUTE TIPS, I AM HAPPY ONE MINUTE AND AFRAID THE NEXT BUT SO LOOKING FOWARD TO THIS I WNET ON THE 50 PLUS SIGHT MOST OF THAT WAS SO :smile: SAD I LEFT THERE I AM FIFTY PLUS :smile: AND LOVING IT I AM A UPBEAT PERSON MOST OF THE TIME MATTER WHAT SO I HAVE TO BE AROUND POSITIVE THOUGHTS:biggrin2: ANYWAY CNA'T WAIT TO GIVE YOU REPORTS AND BE PRUD TO BE PART OF THE REAL BAND GROUP.:wink2:

You guys are doing great i have my banding on the 20th and looking oward to shapeing up again for those of you are having problems check your diet and committment and talk to to dr. Be frank with them and let them knwo what you are going through i really belive this is a wonderful thing best of luck to all

HELLO TO ALL IAM THE REAL DEAL SHOTING STRAIGHT FORM THE HEART :wub:WITH LOVE FOR ALL I AM 55 YEARS OLD AND CAN'T WAIT TO BE 3 AGIAN:biggrin2: ANY WAY I AM MARRIED TO MY HUSBAND OF 35 YEARS WITH 6 CHILDREN 1 OF WHICH IS DECEASED BUT HE 'S IN SAFE HANDS. ANYWAY I AM HAVING THE SURGERY FIRST OF ALL BECAUSE I WAS 375 MIND YOU I AM A GOOD LOOKING WELL DRESSING BIG WOMAN:wink: SO YOU KNOW WHAT'S COMING AFTER I FIRE UP THE BAND:thumbup: NOW BEFORE I STARTED THE PREOP DIET I WAS DOWN TO 362 YEAH FOR ME AND NOW THAT MY LIQUID FANTASY IS ALMOST OVER I AM GETTING EXCITED AND REALLY HUNGRY MY OP DATEIS THE 20TH OF AUG. BY THE WAY ALL YOU POST OP AND PROS WILL I BE ABLE TO EAT MY GREENS THAT IS MY ONE DRAW BACK GREENS AND CHINESE I CAN GIVE UP THE LATTER BUT THEM GREENS I WILL PROBALY HAVE TO GAG A FEW TIMES:lol: WELL LET ME GET SOME FEED BACK I LIKE TO WRITE SO LOOK TO HERE FROM ME ANY QUESTION PLEASE ASK:thumbs_up: SEND PICS MINE WILL POST ON ABOUT THE 25TH BEFORE AND A COUPLE AFTER I LIKE TO SMILE FOR THE CAMERA ALSO I LOVE ME AND I GOT ME THIS WAY AND NOW I HAVE TO GET ME BACK IN THAT 16 OR 18 YOU TALKING ABOUT A BOMB EVEN AT THIS AGE I AM BEAUTIFILER THAT MY SPECIAL WORD ALL MADE FOR ME I AM HAVING FUN SO DON'T THINK I COCEITED JUST GLAD TO BE ME THANK YOU LORD.

I agree with ajoneeen pleas find a respite or an adult daycare alo senoir plus will sometimes shop for your mom you have got to find an escape because if you don't if god forbid your mom passes you will have the smae regrets you do now except you will think that if you ahdn't felt this way and gave love it would have been different. But you are giving the ultimate love. You never said if you are a bander so i guess not just seeking help youmay need to talk to a professional to help you cope does your husband ehlp out he should and do you have siblings talk to them and ask you moms doctor to give her a mild sedative for whn you take her out keep loving her but let your dad know that you have to have some time away and aunt cousin whoever is coming over and not to be mean if not you will not be there and also take a dayjust for you and nobody but you check into a hotel and tell nobody where it is and the number star 67 before calling letting everyone know i am ok but i need this time love you and if you love me you will respect this. Love