Pat2003

I am a brand new member and just had my surgery last Thursday. I thought this forum would be such a good idea. The first posts that I am reading concern the tuna sandwich issue. I really don't think that answering someone with words like..."I don't know why you are asking" is appropriate. Obviously, the 18 year old writer wanted another valuable opinion and I do think she was given somewhat of a lecture. Is this normal? I am hoping not.