As someone who was recently banded and at a time that was filled with family birthdays and functions, I found it easier to tell the truth. Most of my family already knew. When we get together for these functions it's usually at a restaurant. At first I thought this would be very difficult because I am still in the liquid phase, but it isn't. I just politely tell the waiter/waitress that I've had surgery (no need to go into detail) and I am only allowed broth and would they please strain it. I haven't encountered anyone yet who wouldn't. It terms of telling those that aren't close to you my husband took it upon himself to say that I had hiatal hernia surgery (since I was diagnosed with one during my EGD). It explained the immediate effects after surgery (walking slow, unable to lift anything heavy, pain, etc.). That was enough for me for right now. As the weight comes off, the situation might change. I'll have to decide if I want to disclose the truth at that time. For those that I have told, I've found that everyone wants to know everything. There are many people out there who would love to have the surgery and just want a chance to ask questions and get answers from someone that has already been through the whole process. It's individual. Do what comes naturally and seems comfortable to you. Remember: you don't have to disclose anything that you don't feel needed. That's your right. Good luck!
