She doesn't like the fact that she has had mood swings ever since the surgery. And, she hates the whole 'no carbinated' drinks. I think this was the first surgery she's ever had and so alot of the side effects are generally tied to drastic changes in appearance, surgeries, and lifestyle changes. I don't think it's 'enough' to make me decide not to do it.
No, I do not have 401k. I've pretty much been a student/homemaker for the past 14 years. So I have nothing to borrow from.:teeth_smile: