flirtylass

Oh my god im in shock i wasnt on over the weekend and come back to read what i have read im on this forum since last july and never seen the likes my understanding of this forum is obviously a support network for banding patients but lets face it we all chat about personal issues and are quiet close to each other and lean on each other for support from husbands not agreeing to sick parents or MEN and LOVE LIFES lol in my opinion if someone doesnt like what we have to say they dont have to use forum or they can start their own thread and chat on it no one forces anyone to chat on here... I can understand the pain of freckles having to watch her mother in such a situation and lets face it we would be all upset in this situation i also know there are some brilliant nurses care staff and docs out there who get just as frustrated as they cant do it all on their own but i also know that there are some people in the profession who dont give a damm and are in the wrong job this is my opinion i worked in a care home and seen it first hand some carers and nurses went out of their way to help and do anything for the patients then there were the ones who cut corners and left it for the others to deal with and god its frustrating but anyway im starting to ramble on here and lose my point but we all know there is the good and the bad and vanessa i really think u read the whole situation wrong we all know health staff are over worked and underpaid but its still extemely hard on the family if we have a loved one not well it defo wasnt a attack on every nurse or doctor but freckles was just chatting about her concerns so please dont take it as personal attack but realise the concerns and hurt she is feeling... Freckles i hope ur mum is doing good and please keep posting you have no reason not to there is only one person who wasnt happy to read ur posts but we'r all here to offer support no matter what the topic is as i say even though i dont personally know everyone on here we chat so much of course we'r gona get personal and it is a great support and release for me so im gona shut up now but everyone keep posting x

Hi sammy oh best of luck with the op not that u need it but il be thinking of u and excited for u too post as soon as u can il be looking out for ur post but enjoy ur wee break and cant wait to hear from u after the op x

God fatpants i defo hope its nothing to do with the hunky man lol But yeah how shamed would i b if i passed out in the gym i defo wont be letting that happen make a show of my self il just work up a glamorous sweat lol u'v done well on ur pre op i think i gained on it lol

Ah mmm Ur so nice i know ur right in what ur saying and my poor mum is saying the same but im defo going to start eating more and more often and il have to if i plan on doing the gym cos i know id pass out if i done exercise on what im eating and i hope that with the exercise it will boost my loss even though il be eating more and my doc scared me yesterday she was on about my liver and all sorts lol so i defo gona do this the right way from now on thanks for ur concerns and congrats to ur daughters good news on the new arrival... And wishfull yeah normal shops are great its just such a good feeling to be able to buy clothes easier il be broke buying once i start lol but gona hold off until im closer to goal on any major buying cos be waste of money i even bought a pair of jeans i never wore jeans cos i always felt too big for them but i have them now and my mum was so happy to see me with jeans but i think il be aching for a month after the gym lol How are u doing any luck with that stubborn last lb?

Wel no water aerobics for me this morn i was up all night vomiting the pain in my tummy was unreal and all i could do was cry i was terrified my band had slipped or something but thank god it has stopped and feel so much better but feelin wee bit weak and cant stomach thoughts of food and on top of that i cant bloody move after the gym yesterday my legs ass arms every bit of me is in pain can hardly bend down lol but least i know i done somethin when i can feel the pain lol but yesterday i went shopping as need clothes for goin out in liverpool and i got a full outfit out of river island shoes bag the lot and i must say im just thrilled river island is where all my mates got their lovely wee outfits and i always wished i could shop in it and i did yesterday one top is a 16 but its a oversize kinda top so thats the reason i got into it but its baggy on me and a black dress size 18 which is also a oversize style but dont care i got shopping in river island.... but im defo gona start back having my 3meals a day cos i know il need to when going to the gym i dont wana be the big bird fainting in the gym after 15mins lol

Yeah she mentioned the atkins but she said mine is quite full on and its causing me to faint and be dizzy alot but sure il see how it go's

Hey everyone wel i joined the gym yesterday went in at half 8this morn and boy did i work up a sweat i defo felt the pain lol but relaxed in the steam room after it i was there till after 11 and im going to water aerobics in the morn at 10 and have personal trainer at 12 so im defo getting stuck into the exercise think its the right time to start as well and hopefully il get a wee bit toned in areas like my legs where i dont want to have surgery gona go to the yoga and pilates classes too cos damm i feel great now after doin a bit but i went to doc there and she done urine tests and stuff says i have to start eating more cos my body is in a bad state of ketosis well i think thats what she called it she is quite worried about it as she said il start having more and more blackouts which is the reason i went to see her so guess im gona have to boost the food intake too...

Ah wishfull it'l defo start moving again i know when i was around ur stage i had a standstill for about 3wks i near tore my hair out lol and even when i come to a halt now i stil worry like mad but i should know better its just hard to cope with... Well last nite i couldnt sleep and i got up at 2am and scoffed 6special k bars what possesed me lol

Hi fatpants Well as of today i have 5stone 4lbs off which im happy about:) Ah time will start to fly in for you i cant believe im done since 5th september feels like no time since i first looked into the op... Hi shoes yeah fred has a full time unfill nurse here for emergencies but wls have clinics in dublin and belfast

Hi wishfull ah i think u look great... Ah i duno if hes me new fella or not lol im actually half thinking of not meeting him now just go on a mad wkend in liverpool instead but sure il see when time comes i change my mind like the weather lol

OMG do i see angie on the forum lol

Hey wishfull just accepted u on facebook ur a glamour doll

Haha fatpants ah no hes not waxed thats just him oh naturel lol ah im grand doing ok i have 6lbs off since 13th feb so happy enough Hows u are nervous yet?

Ah i had a unreal nite in the arches was great mite go back next month for just the sat nite go on a mad one i always end up in the dodgy spots lol

Yeah i didnt think it was possible to have such blue eyes should try coloured contacts meself lol

Wishfull il private mail u my email addy and u can look me up on facebook and defo no need to worry i wont be mentioning anything band or even weight related on it haha

Haha have to give it to ya id kill for those eyes lol

Ah garry ur a oul charmer lol Or should i call ya Mr Blue eyes lol

Hey wishfull yeah ur right he aint at all shallow even though hes type of fella id picture with a model on his arm but he's just really chilled out and looks dont seem to bother him but i must say fellas from the uk are so much nicer than irish men and treat a girl alot better irish men are pric*ks lol

Ah butterflies doesnt explain it lol goin back over now in 2wks so im on a mission to look my best and have half stone off lol but sure its only bit of fun cos he's all the way over there but god im well happy with myself lol oh ur not gona find the next few wks flying by and at least its in good time before summer you'l get a bit of weight off but god i think u look fantastic already x

Hi sammy yeah i intend to stay in the closet about my band forever lol ah here il prob end up doin damage but i think it will be fun once loud music is involved il be happy... Yeah my poor ben i still miss him like mad but sure no bringing him back now.... did u see my new man i met in liverpool pics on fb u can give me ur opinion cos i duno what he sees in me lol

Haha hope i dont scare ya lol

Hey garry just added u but please dont mention anything about the band on bebo cos no one knows i got it done an thats the way i wana keep it lol

Anyone else here on bebo or facebook?

Hey bigsister thanks lol ah it should be fun and thats the main thing im down another lb today so i said last monday when i got back from liverpool id have half stone off before going back which iv 3lb off so 16days to get another 4off lol how desperate am i counting the days down lol but damm i gota get some new glad rags for going back over have to try and impress now lol but its great alot of the tops i wear are long ones for over tights and leggings and i can now buy the odd bits in river island and places which is great but i think its cos all the oversize tops are in thank god its not all skin tight stuff or id never get shopping in it lol