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ambraberger

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  1. i mean my oldest will be 20 in oct. he's 19 now. Mommy denial. they grow up so fast. my husband and i were babies having babies, but now we'll be "younger" for having them grown and out of the house.

  2. I'm starting preop diet (ugh) mon. They told me no bread, rice, pasta, potatoes, or beans. I hope that's enough. Reading what a lot of other people had to do, liquids, or just certain things, but I guess diff docs, diff requirements. I'm just scared that if he gets in there and decides not to go through with it, i still have my loan payments..... hopefully it will all be fine. think i'm going to have pizza 1 more time and i don't know what else this weekend, then i'm ready. just want to get it over with already. i'll probably be in the waiting room when you're done with your preop appt. i hope we can meet. i don't know how long it takes though. thanks for the pic comments. people are usually suprised when they find out my age, and that i have 3 boys ages 16,18 and my oldest will be 19 in oct. keep in touch this week as we get ready. what are you going to eat?

  3. What has been the hardest part for you?

  4. how do you do the ticker? i did it once and then tried to change it, and lost it. haven't been able to get it back. computer illiterate i guess. thanks for the help
  5. Good luck monday! I'll be thinking about you! So what stuff did you get prior? As for diet, I haven't been, I start my preop on monday. They told me no potatoes, bread, rice, Pasta or Beans. I hope its enough to shrink the ole liver, cuz if he gets in there and decides not to do it I'm screwed. Self pay and can't afford to do it again. :eek:
  6. 2 weeks ago??? How are you feeling? My surgery is 9/29, Dr. Kirshenbaum up in Denver. I'm self pay and he mostly does patients that insurance doesn't cover, was cheaper than down here in springs. what was the hardest part for you? Any tips you have for the week prior? i'm starting to get anxious, just want to get it over with! nice to meet ya :)

  7. Hi Girls! Dr.K's banding me on 9/29. I live in Colorado Springs. I feel the same way about the other Dr. K thread. Mind if I join in with you all? How's everyone feeling>? Nervous, excited? Yikes! Me too!
  8. What day are you getting banded? 29th for me. Getting excited. Start my pre op 22nd. No carbs. Wierd how all the docs are different. Congrats on your minus 13 lbs. WOO HOO:thumbup:

  9. Hi. I'm friends with 9pdmnm5 and I saw your pictures. What do you do? (scrubs) And that you were banded by Dr. K. He's banding me 9/29 and I'm kind of anxious. Excited mostly. Just want it to happen already. How was it the first few days after surgery?

  10. Hey! Where've you been? Yes, I'm starting to freak. My loan has funded, and now I'm like, yikes, guess this is really going to happen! Excited though. And nervous. Your dog is so cute. You are too. That's a neat picture. My preop appt is at 1030 I think. When's yours? I'm still not quite sure how to maneuver all around this site. I had stopped drinking soda for awhile, had some yesterday and it wasn't that great. I am happy I can have coffee later if needed. Still going to try and cut down. When are you starting preop diet? There are so many people wanting to do "last hurrah" things I'll probably gain 20 pounds this week. Brother! I'm looking forward to the time off work. The things you have to do for a vacation. ha ha. I hope we'll be in touch. Cool we're getting done on the same day. :thumbup:

  11. ambraberger

    I am so upset!

    Good for you! Just 1 day and 1 thing at a time. Like I said previously, I've been there. And it's rough. Over and over. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. :thumbup: ... Take care!
  12. did you have your surgery? how are you?

  13. ambraberger

    Someone new in my belly to love!

    Congrats! Very exciting!
  14. ambraberger

    I am so upset!

    I was sexually abused by my "preacher" step father. My mom chose to be in denial about it. Didn't leave him. After she divorced him 17 years later made sure to tell me it wasn't because of what happened to me. Thanks mom. Anyway. Life sucks. I love my mom to death. It's hard to deal with. I have 3 boys, I think God knew what he was doing giving me boys. And I am like you. Nothing would get in the way of protecting my kids. I don't understand why our moms couldn't protect us. Counselling/therapy definately helps. Takes time though. As for the short term, to get through today, don't be too hard on yourself. Slow deep breaths. You've been dealt some hard blows. You've taken good steps, for you. You're and adult and you can choose. Do you have to go to the party? It's not fair that you have to choose. But maybe right now, you should skip it, until you can get some help. It's ok. There's help out there, and believe me it does help. It's not easy though. Take care of yourself. And you're not alone in going through this garbage.
  15. ambraberger

    What is your surgery date? Let's keep a list.

    Sept 29 for me. Dr.Kirshenbaum Denver CO. Can't wait!
  16. Those are the 3 I'm most concerned with also. Especially when I'm working nights. Ugh! Im already missing the bubbles from soda. It's been since yesterday. But I guess I have to remember why I'm doing this, and I"m self pay. Don't want to screw it up. If we can make it through the beginning and start seeing results, I think it will help. I'm curious to see responses of how others got through it. Good post!!!
  17. ambraberger

    lapband not working

    I don't know if it's possible with insurance/selfpay whatever, but could you see another surgeon? I'd be upset if I wasn't losing, but gaining? I agree, maybe it's not placed correctly. Seems like your doc would be more inquisitive as to why you're not losing. (I'm not banded yet, and I'm terrified that it won't work for me either.) Were you losing at the beginning?
  18. ambraberger

    Viagra in his suitcase before trip

    You're not crazy. Go with your gut. Take some time and space to figure out what you really want. I've been through it and you can choose to work it out. Or not. You don't have to decide today. It sucks, but he's probably lying and what you're feeling and thinking is probably dead on. I'm sorry. From someone who's been there, worked very hard at it, and is still married. You can go that route if you chose. Again, don't have to decide today.
  19. ambraberger

    Has anyone been "preparing"?

    That's kind of what I've been thinking. I stopped soda this week. Will give up caffeine next week, (hard cuz I work nights) and the week after that I start my preop. Also increasing my h2o intake. Good luck and have a blast on your vacation!!!!!
  20. ambraberger

    Happy but sad too

    I have CPAP too and hate it! I don't wear mine all the time. It's not really that bad. Maybe I should ask the company about prongs or the nose pillow. I still don't wake up refreshed. Maybe it doesn't fit right. My brat husband calls me darth vador. Nice huh?
  21. ambraberger

    Has anyone been "preparing"?

    GOOD FOR YOU! I've been struggling with "starting to eat better now, or not worrying about it until surgery". I'm back and forth. I guess I should get in gear. I was so discouraged after my insurance company denied me (after I lost 27 1bs, to show I'm committed to lifestyle changes) and not caring, going back and forth from gaining the weight back so they would cover me, but feeling very crappy, and deciding to just self pay, that now I'm kind of out of control. I guess I could use some help getting back in control so its not such a rude awakening 9/29. My surgeon said preop diet (no carbs) 1 week prior, so I've kind of given myself license to do whatever. Funny thing is, nothing sounds or tastes good anyway. UGH!!!! Thanks everybody for all the reminders (smaller bites, no drinking w/meals, lots of Water.... etc)
  22. Is that your baby? How cute! So I'm looking at the calendar.... 25 days from today is the big day! 3 weeks from today is our preop, and that means a little over 2 weeks left of eating whatever. Nothing tastes good anyway. I know I'll be wanting stuff after wards.... What are you doing? I think (right now anyway ha ha) I'm going to try and start making better choices. I'm kind of worried about giving up caffeine when I'm on nights. Thats rough. Did they tell you anything about that? I forgot to ask Dr. K. I understand the soda, carbonation can stretch the pouch... don't want that. But coffee???? Now that I've written a book... Hope to hear from you soon. I have to try to sleep cuz I work tonight. Hate nights! Have a good one!

  23. ambraberger

    After Surgery Tape

    I think people are confusing liquid tape with steri strips. I wouldn't do anything with it. Just let it come off on its own, with time. As I said I'm not banded yet, but I'm a nurse, and taking something off before it's ready could cause problems. Just a thought.
  24. Oops, hit enter b4 I was done. I'm having my surgery 9/29. My loan was approved and I've sent back all documents. They said it takes about 5 days to fund. Then I think this will really happen. Hope you're doing well, send me a note when you can!

  25. Just checking on you. How's it going?

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