Lately, it seems all I can think about. My sister had RNY (bypass) the end of Feb, and she is down 68 lbs. She looks fabulous, feels great, her self esteem has never been higher. She had a real rough go of it though. Bilateral blood clots in her lungs, pleural effusion. About 6 days after she was released from the hosp., she was re-admitted to ICU for another 5 days. She actually almost died. Eventually, the docs regulated her coumidan levels and she was released. After that she had a rough time with the whole stages diet...liquids, purees, food. It was a long time before she could eat/drink anything. Well, here it is 5 months later and she is feeling better.
After seeing what she went through I was not going the RNY route. I opted for the lap-band. I have two friends also who one year ago had the lap-band done and both are having success. One lost 125 lbs and wants to loose 25 more, the other cheats and has lost 85 lbs but doesn't seem to want to committ to the lifestyle change. Both are men.
My husband is also having the surgery. He is scheduled for 9/25. I'm beginning to have second thoughts about the lap-band. After talking with my sister and two friends, I'm not sure if I will have the strength for the lap-band. I'm beginning to think I might do the bypass. I weigh 237 and I am 5'6" tall. My BMI is 38.3. I crave sweets all the time. I eat emotionally with this type of food. My sister says that you cannot cheat with sugars or you can get sick with the bypass. That is why she opted for it vs. the band. I originally wanted to do the bypass, but after seeing what my sis went through I quickly changed my mind. Now, I'm not so sure. So here I am researching both again and talking with both types of patients. I'm in the medical field and see a lot of the negative with both types. I tell myself that there are healthy people that don't come to the hospital because they are not suffering with the side effects of the surgeries. Hence, only seeing the negative. I feel more confused then ever. I have a call into my surgeon and I am waiting to hear from him today hopefully.
I am at a point in my life where I don't want to be heavy. I wasn't always this way. I'm ready for a lifestyle change, I just need the correct tool for me.
How do you feel about your surgery?