Well here we are . Thinking, Researching, Hoping that whatever desions we make will be the best. Well here I am 7 month after being banded and i still have no clue whats going on. I did the excerise, read the books, ate all the rite foods and was extreamly motavited. Until my mother had back surgry and bacame 100% dependent on me. Mind you im 23, work full time, college student and recently married. I no longer had time to cook my healthy meals, everthing i ate was fast food. I stoped working out and started smokeing. I droped out of school and loss my scholarship. Moved from the west to east cost. Needless to say i gave up everthing to care for my mother and loved spending every min with her. Now 4 months later she has become less dependent and im strugleing to get my life back. I need all the support, help, advise, motavation i can get. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP:cursing: