Hi Emily, I am 37 and a mother of one child. I have had the band almost 3 years now. The fills are no big deal. Just remember to eat slowly, don't drink with your meals, and stick to the diet that your nutritionist gave you. I know you might feel like you can eat more, but it is so important to listen what they tell you. Good luck and if you have any questions I'd love to help. :biggrin: