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I've heard and read the very same thing, until I found this forum. Obviously it has work for soooo many people here. For me this is the only option since I dont want to the the GastroBypass and still people who have done that still gain weight like that girl from Wilson Phillips so at this point I think it depends on you. I dont want to deal with what comes with the GBY. I rather bust my butt a bit more and get banded. Im miserable being fat I dont go out bc im to embarrassed I work and come home thats my life and I dont want it to be anymore. I feel like Im not me right now and that deep down inside there is a person who is confident, happy and outgoing. Someone who's dying to come out and do all those things I want to do like going out, going to the beach or a pool. I dont do any of that and i think is time i live my life instead of letting life go by. I just hope my insurance doesnt give me any bs about this because I dont know what am I going to do.
I was just as confused as you are but I started reading everything in here and I see sooooooo many people have lost weight and look and feel happy. If you feel the GBY is better for you do it but do what makes you happy. Being fat is not being happy at least Im not.