honey38635

:smile2:I have been banded a year on the 23rd of this month. I have lost a total of 73 lbs. My husband never wanted me to have the lap band, because he stated that he liked the way that I was. Unfortunately, I didn't. I was at 323 at my highest, with high blood pressure at the age of 26. :lol:This was not the life I wanted for me. Lately my husband has been very insecure. I now like to go out with friends, and just enjoy life. I also still wanted to save my marriage. It now seems that my weight loss has caused my husband to be extremely jealous, in which he would just go into rages. Don't get me wrong.....this has been going on for sometime now. I finally got tired and I filed for divorce. I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced the jealousy for a spouse, or significant other, or even family members.:bored:

Thanks for replying. It's good to know that it's not only me. As far as my family go, my sister put her weight on, and mine went off. When I have my happy days with my weight. I can't share it with her, because she don't want to hear about it.

My surgery is set for 7/23. I work in customer service. Have anyone went back to work before a week after the surgery?

My band will be placed on 7/23 by Dr. Woodman in Memphis. I was told that by me working in customer service I could be back at work in about three days. While at my last doc visit, there was a young lady who walked into the office after having her band for two weeks. She was walking a if she was still in pain. After seeing her I decided that it would be better for me to get the correct paperwork so I can stay off as long as I need to instead of using my vacation days, in which could be now saved.