Livingwell

I've had everything out for 5 years. I had the ovarian cysts bursting every month, on top of everything else. Stage 4 endo, IR PCOS, and on only had 1-2 days a month without a period. I can't say I regret is, 'cause I didn't have much choice. The endo was attached to 7 organs, and digging into my bowel. I am glad to be mostly pain free, and definately period free. However, it is life altering. I do not have kids. Not that I had an all consuming need to have them, but know knowing I can't..... I strongly suggest checking out: www.hystersisters.com.

First of all, how did you get your husband to go to the grocery? Anyway, I have the same problems. Not only do I get the food pushing, but I have to endure "I don't see how that can work" Blah Blah Blah. To make matters worse, I found out my port has been upside down, and I never got any fill. I had surgery yesterday to turn it, and my first fill. The whole time he had the "see, I told you it wouldn't work" look. Now, his back hurts worse than my surgery. A$$!

I have health insurance, but it was still cheaper (and faster) to go to Mexico. I saved over $5000.00 by going. I just looked at my calander, and called. I choose a surgery date 3 weeks from when I called. No hoops, no pre-up diet, no problems.

I'm on week two. My list is: Vegatables and fruits, mashed of pureed. Other soft foods like oatmeal and other Cereal products )grains), cream of wheat. Cottage cheese, creamy soups, sugar free pudding. I couldn't face anything "sweet" today. Not a big pudding fan either. So I had a little roasted red pepper Hummus, and Guacomole. It was WONDERFUL! I had it about 12:30pm and I'm still satisfied. I also created what I call beef strogonoff soup. It's nothing more that cream of mushroom and beef broth. I used an immersion blended just to make sure the mushrooms were pureed. :thumbup:

I'm just full of poo! I'm 5 days post-op, and on liquids. And STILL Pooing! LOL! :seeya:

My friend had LB at the end of March, and had warned me about the depression. She sufferred very badly, and I knew I would too. My personal solution may be stupid, but it's mostly working for me. Before the surgery, I had made peace with the fact any post-op pain, and mental hunger was a form of penance. I know there are those that might view this as being too harsh on myself, but in my heart, that's what it feels like. I'm doing penance for eating when I wasn't really hungry, eating HUGE portions to the point of sickness, and never getting any exercise. I'm doing penance for crazy, unhealthy "diets" I've tried hoping for a quick fix without having to make any real changes. I'm doing penance for lying to myself about how much I was really eating. I'm about 168lbs overweight. That means I had to eat an additional 588,000 calories to gain that. That's alot of food! I have remained calm, and focused. I've only had a few pity-party moments, but I remind myself that this is it. I want this lb, I need this lb, and I have to do my part. I also realize, that I will be able to occasionly have my comfort foods. I just can't live on them. Frankly, they haven't brought me that much comfort. I'm still recovering at home, I'm only 7 days post-op. I can feel the mental change already. I can now actually watch a food commercial now (HOW CAN YOU AVOID IT? MY GOD, FOOD,FOOD,FOOD! ) LOL I hope you find what works for you. I know first hand how difficult this is. :thumbup:

I'm feeling fine. I was weak this am, but I had some slimfast and yogurt, (not mention a little nap), and I feel great!

I'm 5 days post op. Everything is going pretty good. I may have overdone it yesterday, and that could be the problem. Today, I feel really weak. I'm trying to choke down yogurt this am. (Absolutely HATE Yogurt!). Did I just overdo it, or do I need to progress to full liquids?:eek:

I had some slimfast, and stretched out for a few minutes, and I feel better. Still think I overdid it yesterday. It's very confusing to me the differences between all the pre and post-op diet information I see. I did clear liquids (by choice) until today. My doctor's week one list is: Choose bland, soft, and liquid food. Clear fruit juices and broth, Gelatin, yogurt, and low-calorie, skim milk, non-fat pudding, non-carbonated drinks. Creamy Soups if very watery. Week two: Vegatables and fruits, mashed of pureed. Other soft foods like oatmeal and other Cereal products (grains), cream of wheat, and wheat toast. ottage cheese, creamy soups, sugar-free pudding. ?????

Thanks Jack. I think I get it. (Did the research) Still working on the yogurt (YUCK!!!) Then I think I'll have a little nap.

P.S. Just to clarify - I've been researching the lap-band for about 2 years. (no snap decision) LOL Also, I had called my insurance company back in Feburary to start the process. I'll let you know when they call me back!

I've been miserable for a long time. Among the many stressors, a new job at a fat-phobic company, with a boss that can't keep her eyes off my gut. Everyone's helpful suggestions about diet and exercise. The weight didn't creep on - it hit like a freight train. I've been dieting for 38 years , and I just didn't have it in me to "go it alone" again. Also, DH is very loving man, but I guess even he has his limits....been AWHILE! But the final straw was my mother. I've had a real problem with legs/ankles/feet swelling for about 6 months. I had to go by mom's house. The look of horror in her eyes (When the were open! She cannot look at anything she considers painful.) When it was time to leave, I told her I was gonna peepee first. She told me to go to the other bathroom, it was bigger, and I would have more room. Post surgical pain? Ain't nothin' compared to the pain in the heart. Ahhh, need I say more? I came home and set up my surgery dates for three weeks later. Very few people know I'm doing this. Hence the name-"Living well" (is the best...). Well, that was cathartic! Sorry, I really am in a great mood! I'm so happy and excited to get the help I need to get back to the weigh I was "the weekend I was thin". :confused_smile: WHOOHOO!

Phew! I'm getting banded by Dr Zapata on July 18th. My friend had hers done there. She keeps telling me how wonderful he is and about the beautiful hospital. I'm glad to hear it from you too! I can't wait!

ME! First time posting. Going to Monterrey Mexico. My friend at work had hers late March from Dr Zapata. She says he's wonderful and so is the hospital....... Anxious, Nervous, CAN'T WAIT!:thumbup: