I understand how you feel completely! It is not about the food we are eating, it's about what's eating us. Once you figure out what the real problem is that caused you to ever feel like you needed WLS in the first place, you will be on your way. I have had to realize that nothing or on one around me is more important that me gaining the sense of health and well-being that I desire. I had surgury on 1/14 and have fallen off the wagon.....I went for my second fill on 3/23 and only lost .7 pounds in 4 weeks! I decided then that when I go back in 4 weeks I will have at least lost 10 pounds, but it is not magic, I have to do my part. Remember the reasons you decided to have the surgery in the first place and reflect on those things. Also, you are not even a month out; at 2 weeks out, I didn't want my band anymore, but I had to realize that the band is just a tool and I still must put in the work. However much weight you have lost so far, look at it as weight that you will never see again. Everytime I respond to a post such as yours, I tell the person that this weight loss journey is not a sprint, it is a marathon and the goal is to stay in the race.....I think you are still in the race. Be blessed!