frazzledmomof2

I actually went through with the bypass and had my procedure on same date 8/20. I was lucky and was able to come home after a day. Pain has been stable and have not really taken anything since I have been home.

N. W. Nance you are so right about that! Yesterday when we went to church I spoke with the priest after the mass and told him about my upcoming procedure and to have him pray for me. And that also kinda made me feel alot better. But thanks again for everyones support. This is still a great site that I would definately recomment to anyone needed support.

Just to let everyone know who has been nice enough to respond to my post that I have made the decision to have the gastric bypass. I know everyone has there own opinions on either surgery (like I have read from responses) but I have spent three very long days doing nothing but research this and speak with many people who have had the bypass and how they have been since surgery. I know the risks involved and I don't take them lightly but I have a great surgeon who has performed many bypass surgeries and has never to date had to (open up someone from lapband). I have thought of maybe doing the band first and then if that doesn't work do the bypass but I don't want to take that risk...being under sedation is a risk in itself and why would I opt for another surgery "just in case the first one doesn't work". It's like a marriage you don't go into that thinking "hey if it doesn't work I can always get a divorce" (bad analogy I know). I sorry for the rambling and I know I don't owe anyone an explanation of my decision but you have all been nice enough to spend time on responded to my question I thought I would be nice enough to give my decision. It all boils down to what feels comfortable and what your heart is telling you to do. As long as my husband and immediate family is supporting me is all I need right now. Thanks again to everyone who has responded. And to anyone who is grappling with this same decision.....GOOD LUCK!!!!!

I was originally scheduled for lapband on 8/20/08, but after my first visit with the surgeon she mentioned maybe thinking about bypass as well since my BMI is in the high 40's and the weight loss is more significant with the bypass. After researching and speaking with several people who have had the bypass I have decided to do the bypass as well. I'm still young, I have no serious health risks yet (except high blood pressure) and I have not had any major surgeries other than 2 c-sections. Good luck to all of you deciding to go the bypass route.

I really appreciate everyones input. I think the thing that got to me at drs. office is that you'll lose alot more in the long run with the bypass. I have heard of a few people having a difficult time losing weight with the band. Has anyone heard of someone being banded and then down the road getting a bypass? Does insurance cover two different WLS's?

Hello all, I am faced with a new decision. I just met with the surgeon who is scheduled to do my lapband on 8/20 and during our conversation she mentioned the possibility of doing a bypass since my BMI is in the high 40's. I'm borderline lapband/bypass. She mentioned that she could do both it''s ultimately my decision but said that since I have more weight to loose I will obviously loose faster with bypass. Both procedures can be done laporascopically which is very nice and I could probably get away with one night hospital stay. I have to let her know soon. Does anyone know someone personally who has had the bypass. I'm not sure what to do. I probably should check of bypass forum. Any info would be greatly appreciated.

I'm in Old Bridge. How about you?

Everyone's advise has been fabulous. I know this will be something I definately have to work on cause at time I enjoy eating spicy foods and the drinking part worries me. But I will definatley take the ice cube advice, I would have never thought of that. I'm meeting with my surgeon today so I will ask her how she feels about this topic. Thanks again to all who responded.

I'm using Endo Surgical Assoc. in Freedhold. Dr. Washington and Dr. Dobruskin are a few of the doctors there. I'm to meet with Dr. Dobruskin tomorrow (she's doing my surgery). But Dr. Washington seems very nice (he did my upper endoscopy).

I'm trying not to think to much of the remaining time I have left on this liquid diet. Just trying to get through one day at a time. But thanks for your support.

I have been on this cursed liquid diet now since July 22nd. I have probably cheat only 3 of the 16 days (since I am only human) and am now about 13 days away from my surgery. At this point I can't wait until the mushie stage since I will be able to at least have scrambled eggs and not drink all my meals. I'm keeping strong and looking toward the big picture and trying to prove to myself and the few people who know of my upcoming surgery that I can do this.:frown:

I have been on this cursed liquid diet now since July 22nd. I have probably cheat only 3 of the 16 days (since I am only human) and am now about 13 days away from my surgery. At this point I can't wait until the mushie stage since I will be able to at least have scrambled eggs and not drink all my meals. I'm keeping strong and looking toward the big picture and trying to prove to myself and the few people who know of my upcoming surgery that I can do this.