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Sorry to hear about your health issues Kat, hope you're doing better, Nancy.:smile:

Thanks forgot it was on will go watch now but I suppose I missed the good parts already, Nancy.

I prefer O'Reilly on the radio, he's nicer for some reason and usually has a co-anchor with him, one of his blonds. Geraldo I prefer during hurricane coverage when he's wet otherwise I prefer his little brother.

Does Keith wear lipstick?

gadgetlady, I think what offends the left wing are the radio talk shows. I can't see where they're that bothered by TV news programs as there really aren't that many swinging right. I argue all the time with my republican husband about issues but I still will always watch Fox for more objective news program. If I want to see the spin I'll flip to MSNBC or CNN. I registered democrat as many young voters do and have remained a democrat but it doesn't mean I only vote democrat. I just hate to see people be hypocritical about objectivity.

I'm sorry I mentioned CNN before I meant to say MSNBC as being very biased in the liberal direction. I think Keith Olbermann is shamefully biased.

It's funny because I am a registered democrat but I find Fox to be the most unbiased news program out there and I watch as many as I possibly can. Have you ever watched CNN? Talk about bias. I'm also one of those people who won't make up her mind until after the debates are over and we're much closer to the election.

Baycitybandster, I can understand your passion and frustration as I am and have been struggling with my lap band since I was banded over a year ago but to be fair Kat... posted her comment when the original post was in the "successful stories" section and then someone had it moved to the struggling lap bandsters section but as far as I know there was not a "remark" made about that "move" so how would you or anyone know right? Take care Nancy.

A little harsh Jack don't you think?

Thanks Chris, Nancy.

Thanks Lisa, I don't consider myself addicted to food, I have to eat to live. I know others do and I can respect that. If you go on Amazon also look at books on self esteem and weight, women and sizism and there are some good books that helped me when I was really depressed about my band failure. I know there are a variety of philosophies out there but I had to get away from the good/bad type ones to get back my sanity, thanks and good luck to you Nancy:smile:

You either eat too fast or you don't chew your food to the right consistency and it sits in your new stomach above the band and you end up vomiting it up. It usually hurts and feels like a golf ball in your esophagus. It's different than vomiting the old way as its not digested. A VSG is a vertical sleeve gastrectomy which is listed under the other weightloss surgery section of this forum. Nancy:smile:

I don't know what it is but is there anyway you can get in sooner than 9/22 by putting more pressure on your doctor. I think most of us would be worried by your situation. I am having esophagus issues but because I have "chest pains" due to the esophagus they put me in the hospital over the weekend to rule out the heart. Nancy.

I also have type 2 diabetes and hypothyroidism and am on antidepressants which seem to affect me also. I'm also having some esophagus issues that may help bring me closer to getting it removed although once removed I am not considering a revision to any other surgery. On my one year anniversary I discussed removal with my surgeon and he asked me to wait a couple more months to make sure this is what I wanted to do. But he did remove all of my fill at that appointment. Funny thing is now that I'm working towards removal I seem to be losing weight, Nancy:smile:

Sorry you're in the same boat as I am. I was under the same impression. Thought it would lessen the amount I ate overall but didn't take into consideration the the healthy foods would be the hardest to eat and the unhealthy the easiest. I still have a difficult time understanding why after suffering so many years of yo yo dieting etc... that some do well on the band and others just don't. I attempted to understand the whys ifs ands and buts after surgery as to the failure and after many months of trying to figure it out the simple truth is it wasn't the right choice for me and I may not have known beforehand. Good luck to you, Nancy.:rolleyes2:

Green, I think what you said is really important. And those that don't feel the love anymore or the spark etc... you get out of your marriage what you put into it. You want more spark and love then you put the spark and the love into it and don't wait for the other to do it for you! Nancy:smile:

There was an interesting article in the 9/16th issue of Womans Day Magazine this month called "It's a wonderful life, 17 breakthroughs that have changed our lives". In it they picked the biggest of the last 30 years and this is one that was listed that I found related to this thread on spanking. PARENTING time-outs What do you do when your child has a meltdown in the supermarket? One of the major breakthroughs in parenting has been the use of the time-out, which helps many moms and dads who might otherwise resort to sterner punishment. "The time-out has earned it's place as the most widely recommended discipline technique," says Robert Needlman, MD, coauthor of Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care: 8th Edition. "It works well to reduce unacceptable behaviors without the negative side effects of earlier punishments like spanking. Kids can learn to control themselves without suffering the pain, fear or anger that goes with hitting".

I understand the risk of getting a staph infection and the harm that could cause you but they can't leave that band in you like that for the rest of your life, that part confuses me. Hope you're doing better, Nancy:smile:

I have a little experience with excess skin, lap band and RNY. I was always on the heavy side since childhood and when I was 19 I lost over 100 lbs fairly quickly with the help of drugs that you could get very easily back then but were not done through a prescription. I then gained it back over the course of a year and then the following year lost it again. During those two weight losses I had no extra skin. I then put on about 25lbs became pregnant and had a 9lb11oz baby and stretched out my stomach, gained some weight over a 3 year period and had a 10+lb baby and stretched out my stomach a lot more. So basically even though I lost weight quickly the first two times I had no extra skin and didn't until I had to the two babies. I don't know if it's a quick weight gain then loss that creates the skin, genetics or what but I don't think you can say that with lap band you'll have no extra skin and with RNY you will. I will always have extra skin no matter what. My daughter was a quick gainer of weight prior to her RNY. I think she may have put on an extra 60 lbs fairly quickly at one time so since her surgery she's having extra skin issues and is in her 20s. So maybe it's a quick gain that does it not necessarily a quick loss that guarantees the extra skin or both. Just a thought. It does take more time to recover from RNY as I have been there since my daughter's surgery this past May. There are many more things you have to take in order to supplement your diet basically for the rest of your life. It works, I've heard people can gain back weight after a period of time but not as much as the had lost in the beginning. I personally did have a difficult time letting my daughter go through this as she's my flesh and blood and no one wants their child to go through something this traumatic but then I knew if she didn't she'd be miserable and she chose this surgery over the lap band as she felt it had a better rate of success. I don't know if my issues had that much to do with it as she's a pretty smart cookie and makes up her own mind. Nancy:smile:

I am curious as to various issues regarding complications too. I have been having pains that come and go quickly near the center of my breastbone and also have pain near my port after I eat. I am also somewhat restricted even though I am unfilled. I see the PA at my surgeon's office tomorrow. I just hope I can figure it out as I spent the weekend in the hospital so rule out the heart which was not fun and a waste of time! Let me know if you find out anything and good luck to you, Nancy.:thumbdown: Also the PA at the hospital said you don't have to have feel the acid come up to your throat to have acid damage done to your esophagus. He also mentioned hiatal hernia. So who the heck knows.

All I can say looking at your back is "OUCH!!!":crying:

My brother was wondering if those retainers were comfortable. Have you had any issues with it thanks, Nancy.

Would a public stoning suffice?

I went to the Lap Band site and from what I can tell it says that 25% of people who suffer complications have it removed. The information on that site has changed a lot since I was banded and more information is on there that wasn't there prior. So at least they are better at informing people now which is good. I didn't know if anyone had statistics or where it could be found. I don't know if the "Lap Band" site is really that objective of a place to get the info from, Nancy.

put up all the pics you can, it helps to know what's going on in there although you appear to have more than most of us!