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Truly great advice you guys. Feeling the love in here, it is comforting to know that we are truly and genuinely cared about. (Now is the time to go AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW):omg_smile:

AND the neck action is GREAT for slimming up the under chin area!! I love it too....what is it with all these retentive women who barely even want to poke at it let alone put it in their mouth? SIGH:sleep:

I posted a site earlier all about the gspot, every woman has it. It is about two inches into the vagina from 11:00 to 2:00 if the inside you think about the clock face. It is raised and egg shaped, the more it fills with fluid the more pronounced it gets. When you first stimulate it it feels a bit sharp, even a bit uncomfortable, but give it patience and time and it will be better that ANY clitoral orgasm. Just think of it as a whole new island to explore. It is NOT pee, it is women's prostate fluid, it is clear, and a bit sweet. The Hitachi magic wand has an attachment called the gwhiz, I guarantee you'll find it with that...it will scare it out of you...lol. :thumbup:

"Power Room Gone WILD" Hmmm, wouldn't you think by the name of the topic that it would might be a bit controversial? And why would you press further on down 7 pages worth of discussion only to say, "that is just sick."? ANYWAY... I can completely vouch for the Hitachi Magic Wand...it runs like a Harley Davidson, nothing else compares. I do frequent the XXX stores....in hickville all there is is trucker ones. LOL I don't let it bother me a bit. I am just as entitled to be in there as guys. I take things out of the box, with permission, just as if I were shopping in the tool section at Lowes...LOL. Hey, if you are gonna spend 80.00 plus on a toy, it darned well better be exactly what I want. I also ask the clerks what they recommend, what is popular, what is new? I am the adventerous type. One last point to add...lol Having long past my 30 mark, I have come to the notion that you CAN differentiate sex and love and relationships. As a matter of fact, it is rather a relief that I could call someone up just for the romp and expect nothing more. You can be smart and be safe, and look after you own needs rather than breaking your neck chasing someone else's. Turning thirtyand more has been the most incredible time of my life, I am learning so much more about myself. The happier I am with myself, I can better connect with others, as a mother, and a friend, and a lover/wife.

We still don't have the smart machines. RATS! Sounds like just what I need to kick start my weight loss even more. Hopefully we'll get them soon. The girls at my local Curves are really easy going about skipping machines if you need to. Wish I could skip the squat machine...I HATE that one...LOL:cursing:

I also was told from my gyn that any scented soaps, bath oils, powders or even things like scented pads or tampons cause utis so it may be linked to other things, not just the hubby. I know this is difficult for you, I hope things get better for you soon. Pretty soon you will be the one coming online with the wild night stories!! :crying: BTW: Did I submit for the Whore Club? If not I throw my undies in!! They are clean I promise!!LOL

Shows how much I watch the moving pictures box thingy...lmao.:whatchutalkingabout

I'm with you Froggi...opening up about my problems and struggles has helped me immensely, and everyone here is genuinely concerned and helpful. This kind of information is nothing compared to the 40,000,000 credit card numbers stolen last week. AGGH!:whatchutalkingabout Every place you visit on line has a way of identifying you, even if you don't put down personal information. We all have an ip address, it is as unique as your fingerprint. It is something to think about, but there are measures to protect yourself, just do some research. :tt2:

That is a great reply Ezma..it IS the truth after all In my own experience, the best way to bring myself out of an addiction(food or otherwise,) is to be honest with everyone about my point of view. I quit a 15 year smoking habit by letting everyone I know, they were extremely supportive, and at least tried to understand how I feel. I am at a point in my life where I know that as a mother of two I will never look 20, anymore. I am okay with that, but I can be the best 34 year old I can. I deal with the public everyday, they see me changing too. When I get compliments, I let them know exactly what time it is. I have worked extremely hard, and will continue to do so. If i can inspire just one person to get help for their food addiction, then it will be a talk well worth the effort. The only time I have been ashamed, is when I declined to do anything about it...wrapped up in my pity, and embarrassing my kids.:eek:

I started Curves over a week ago. I absolutely love it. It took some getting used to...making it around the circuit a second time proved difficult at first. Now I am keeping up the pace throughout, and I am noticing results...they might not be drastic, but enough to keep me motivated that is for sure. The girls are great too, they want you to succeed!:thumbup:

I have 6 1/2 in a 10 cc band, I think I am just now beginning to feel where I need to be. One more should do the trick.:thumbup: My weight loss isn't that great either, but I am not giving up!

:thumbup: WoW LOOKIN GOOD!! I love necklines...now it will be so easy...and cooler! and I love your glasses even more! I just got new ones...lol.

Hello Everyone, I am a working mother of two, non- traditional college student, and wife to a great husband. I was banded at Lourdes weight wellness center by Dr. Alex Argotte. He is a wonderful doctor. It was a year long struggle to get to this point, but I made it. I have some concerns because I am not losing at the pace of others I have seen on the site. I look forward to others advice. Thank you for reading.

I am up to 6 1/2 of a 10 cc band. I still lack restriction at times. Sometimes it feels like it is too much(especially in the morning,) that brings the pain for me. Overall, I feel that if it weren't for exercise and diet, the band isn't helping me much.:thumbup:

I have Dr. Argotte as well...worth every mile and dollar that was spent. As far as the filter, it wasn't fun getting it, but I was so paranoid about clotting and how easy it is to get one, I just did it. I figured a little more money was worth prevention and a scare in the long run.

Dr. Argotte Lourdes Hospital Paducah. Highly recommended!

WOW this thread took off like wildfire!! FYI: My weight has slowed down my horizontal acrobatics for now also. HOWEVER, there is hope for the no orgasm by just penetration. Ladies...discover your g-spot. It is NOT a joke..it is real. You can even ejaculate...(or squirt.) I WISH I had found out about this years ago. There is a book by Deborah Sundahl Isis Media - G-spot & Female Ejaculation ...I give her, and my best friend my claim to fame. That is my ability to ejaculate. My husband goes bonkers when I do it. It sounds cliche' but once you tap into it...your ability to orgasm will increase..and it is altogether different. BETTER should I say than a dumb clitoral orgasm...that is just a flash in the pan.

Somehow...the good doc and I got confused... I am at 6 1/2 cc. Lost 2 more pounds this time around. lol Definitely better than gaining!:thumbup:

Looking GOOD dear! Chin up and keep that attitude! :thumbup: I LOVE your confidence!

The doctor told me that when I feel that sort of pain...it is a reminder to either stop eating because it is either too much or too fast. I get that quite a bit because I still have trouble taking it slow.:thumbup: Also I have been using that as an indicator to just stop the meal altogether, if I just relax, I will have felt the restriction. That is what I need to make me stop. Others have better will power than me.

She beat me to it...lol

Hey great to see some natives here! Dr. Argotte is wonderful..you won't regret it..I will be here if you need me! Just PM me. By the way...your parrots are TRE COOL!:thumbup:

I am so happy to hear that it is working for you...we have close to the same surgery date. You are much more advanced than I am:thumbup:

I have found many wonderful and caring friends here...BUT Like you I am having issues with my band...I have not lost much at all. I am going back to my weightloss psychologist to tell her my concerns. To my undoing, I have not walked the line as I should, it is what effort I am putting into this to what I am achieving. I have one more fill to full capacity. I need to exercise more, I need to make better choices...NOBODY is twisting my arm. But at the same time, it still hurts when people ask...HOW MUCH HAVE YA LOST?....well for one, none of your damn business is my first thought. Then it hurts my feelings and makes it awkward to have to tell them nothing. Lastly...find a local support group. I can't stress this enough. It is an altogether better experience to be able to cry on another's shoulder...whom UNDERSTANDS...HAS BEEN DOWN YOUR ROAD. In the meantime, we will be here for you...for each other. This will NOT beat me!:Angel_anim:

This was something my DR was ultra super duper paranoid about. I decided to get the filter put in just as a precaution. I figured hell I was going into debt, a little extra dough to help prevent something was well worth the expense. I also did the 18 days of Lovenox shots too. And the old lady stockings...they were great for swelling, which I still have issues with.:confused2: