I just wanted to jump in and share my personal experience. I was banded this last Monday (7/7). I did it completely by myself...and it was fine. I'm the type of person who just likes to recover alone. Friends and family are great, but I didn't have to answer a barrage of questions about how I was feeling, etc.
In all honesty, there was more pain than I anticipated, but it was mostly confined to getting in and out of bed and rolling over. I thought to myself every time 'would it be easier if someone was here to help me?' and the answer was no. It would have been just the same except someone else would be there to share in the agony..and to some people that's very important in times of sickness. It was no easier when the nurse helped me out of bed after surgery.
I'm not saying doing it alone is for every person. A lot of people NEED to be nurtured and coddled when they are sick. If you are not one of those people, you shouldn't have any problems if you stay on top of how you're feeling and make yourself move around. My family offered to fly to where I was, and I declined because I would rather have them come when I could enjoy them.
I stayed in a motel and just made sure I had different liquids, gas-x strips and a heating pad. The heating pad was the key I'd say. And, of course, fill your prescriptions BEFORE surgery.
My loved ones were able to support me by email and phone just as much as they could have supported me in person in those first few days. And I didn't have to worry about anything besides getting well.
And it's not like you will be bed bound. Getting up and moving around isn't FUN...but it's recommended. And I say the sooner you get back to doing things yourself, the quicker your recovery will be. But that's just me.
Feel free to drop me a line if you have any questions. Congratulations and good luck! :biggrin: