:scared2:I would like to be a part of the over 60's group. Ihave not been banded yet, but I hope to by the end of the year. I have had some anxiety issues about getting the lap band. (what kind of a life will I have after, friends telling me not to do it, I will loose initially, but gain it back.) I'm working through these things pretty well, I have had extra psychological counselling, which is helping, also I've gone to some weight loss support group meetings.