Hi, wow, you sure you wasnt reading my mind when you wrote that last sentence! lol i have been saying that every since i decided to get the band. i have my first consult on the 3rd. i am walking in with all my labs, sleep study, ekg, dr. letter, stress test etc. lol. when they see all that i have already, they are gonna say, "well, i think this is all we need to submit to the insurance!" lolol i hope thats what they will say. im very excited about it, i am over 100lbs overweight and cant wait to start living a healthier lifestyle. i have 2 children still at home with me, ages 13, 5. so i understand what you mean when you say you want to be around to play and do things with them without getting out of breath!