Thanks for your email. I am trying to be supportive, as well. My husband did not have to be on an all liquid diet for pre op but I am fixing him his dinner (4oz lean meat and veggie) plus he is drinking the Protein shake for Breakfast and he has fruit and yogurt for lunch so, I am doing Slim Fast for breakfast and canned Soup for lunch and I eat what he eats in he evening. I am sure your partner will have the support she needs from you.
Good luck on the banding on the 23rd. Let me know how you guys do.
Hugs,
Lindy07