Don't worry about when he'll be in town next. The point is YOU'RE in town and you've got a band! Work it! If you don't take his calls or read his text messages you'll never have to worry about when he'll be in town.
Concentrate on you. Be good to you. The rest will fall into place. I am envious, I wish I had my band already! I get to pick a surgery date when I go in on Tuesday...
I'll be thinking good thoughts for you!!