hi, congrats on your new life! I always have protein shakes on hand because some days the band feels tighter than others like the few days before your period it's hard to eat anyting. Shakes are good for these days. Veggies that are good when they are steamed within an inch of there lives are good, you can get them really soft and almost mushy (broccoli, edamame, califlower, squash etc). Potatoes are good in moderation, oatmeal ( you can make it as liquid as you need to depending on your tightness. Proteins that are good, try meat that has been tenderized, I bought a meat smasher and it help break up the meat so it's easier to chew into smaller bites. Hope this helps