Leighann, your message made me feel very sad, knowing that there are a lot of people who need support to make this critical change in their lives. But you do have support, right here at Lapbandtalk.com and at many other websites. Most of us feel so enthusiastic that we just want to help each other too. I waited for three years before attending a seminar and looking up information on lap band surgery. And many times people would say, "All you need to do is exercise more and eat less." Finally, my smart mouth reply became, "Gee, I have lived all this time and didn't know that. How could I have been so stupid? Duh, why didn't I think of that?" When I finally learned to ignore the naysayers and just go ahead with the surgery, I decided to be careful about who I discussed it with. At the age of 68 (that's not a typo) I had the surgery on august 15. I only had 60 lbs to lose, but finally realized I couldn't do it by myself. So about 18 days later I am down 15 lbs---without a fill yet. I am thrilled because I know, for once, that when I lose all the weight I don't have to worry about ever gaining it back.
I hope you will have coverage from your insurance, Leighann. I endedup paying for mine, but when they opened me up I had such a large hiatal hernia that it might have qualified me. I don't know. Good luck, and don't get discouraged. My only regret is that I waited three years to do this.
Your friend, Bryn