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Hi all, just a fly by. I'll have to see what my DS has planned -- if he took the morning or the afternoon off to spend with me on Friday so I'll know what I'm doing that day. He's been so busy with a glass convention this week, I don't want to bug him. I should know more over the weekend. I do a lot of resorts and they will also let you change and use the pool while you wait to check in to the rooms too. I see tons of shows in Vegas too, so I don't really want to do a show either unless it's free (we've paid some of DSD's bills since she was sick so I'm actually coming sorta broke anyway). So I'm all for visiting and swimming and stuff like that. I'm a big crier too - OMG -- we'll all be messes. Julie, glad you're back safe and sound. Gotta run, busy today and still at work. Linda

Melissa, sending good thoughts your way on the job -- I hope you get it -- think positively and it will happen. Laura, I don't know how I did it either -- and I worked a lot of overtime -- I didn't have a big house -- usually just a 2 bedroom apt. when it was just my son and me. I know I got up early every day and did some chores before work and after work and never watched tv (and of course as Janet said, there were no computers to distract us either) I know I cleaned and did laundry and shopping on Saturdays and then always cooked up a bunch on Sunday so we could just reheat during the week (thank goodness I got a microwave when they first came out in early 80s). That sounds funny - but it's true. I certainly couldn't do it now. LOL. LauraK good going on the cigs - I didn't even realize you smoked -- it's hard to quit, but trust me when I say it's really wonderful when you do kick it for good - I can't even imagine having one now and I was a very heavy smoker (2 plus packs/day) for over 30 years. If I could do it, anyone can. Good job -- I'm so proud of you. Not much else happening, hope Julie will get some relief. I just don't understand why her local docs couldn't have figured that out - or tried that. Well, gotta run. Busy day today. I'll try to write more later. Linda

Jodi, You make me want to become Jewish -- such beautiful traditions and sounds so comforting! Apples, glad you're back -- are you going back to the lake this week? I can't remember your schedule. I know I'm forgetting things, sorry if I'm missing stuff. Linda

Melissa, hope you start to feel better soon and it turns out to be nothing. Laura, hope your Dad gets better soon -- sorry to hear he's having problems again. Hope your Mom is doing okay. WTG Nelson on his first board break -- Im impressed. Sorry about the car issues - but this way your DH (and his staff) can appreciate what you do everyday even more. Julie, I said Joyce's prayer for you too - hope it works. Lori, sorry about NO - but it'll get planned again I'm sure -- congrats on that full length mirror -- put on your bathing suit and look at yourself too. I just got a copy of the DVD from the wedding/reception and I FINALLY got to see how I really look -- and you know what? Everyone is right - I'm damn skinny enough! I may wear larger sizes than some people, but I'm skinny enough for me. LOL. So enough of worrying about that. Cheri, so very sorry about both boys --- how sad, and especially for the older boy - what a sad and horrible burden to bear and how tragic for both -- my heart just goes out to everyone concerned. Just tragic. I hope you and the family will find some comfort in knowing that it was just his time. Celebrate his life, as short as it was, I'm sure he made a large impact on everyone. LauraK, so sorry about the BF -- I hope you'll meet someone new that will take your mind off him. It's hard, sending hugs to you. Arlene, hope Bethany and DD are doing good. I have really bad allergies - in fact I woke up with my eyes dripping several times and they are really red today - pink eye - caused by allergies -- should go away in a day or two on it's own, if not, I'll go to eye doctor. Katie home and is doing okay - still very weak. She will take it slow - Aylah will be with her until I get off work then I'll pick her up and she'll spend the night with us and I'll get her off to school in the morning. All is calm for the moment and I'm thankful for that. I'll try to write more later, getting busy again. Linda

Hi everyone, Just catching up on all the posts. Julie, I hope you get some answers this time around at the Mayo. It seems a shame you had to leave and go back again. And congrats on the new baby news!! I'm jealous -- but happy for you and your DD. Katie is coming home - should be getting home soon -- DH went around 2 to pick her up. Aylah was so very excited. She will spend the mornings at her apt. and have a visiting nurse come in to do her pic line every day (for 3 weeks). Then she will come spend the afternoon with Aylah at our house, have dinner and then her dad will take her home. She won't be driving for awhile either. We don't want her to do too much and get sick again - plus she's very weak. We just want her to heal and get stronger. Aylah will be fine spending the night with us and we'll get her up and off to school every morning. Sylvia Browne was pretty good - the first hour she did a little lecture -- we felt like she was talking directly to us as it was mostly about adult children taking advantage of parents, not taking care of themselves, etc. As we arrived, we each received a raffle ticket and were told to keep that. Then they drew the tickets and the people who were drawn got to ask one question - she spent the entire second hour doing that -- she made people limit it to one and only one question -- she moved through them quite quickly -- probably about 70 people got questions answered. Sadly, most of the questions were "I lost my job, do you see me working soon?" All in all, it was worth the $32 each we spent on the tickets - we enjoyed it. Had a nice evening away and swam and soaked in the hotel hot tub (we had one in LA and sure do miss ours) . Lori, I love NO -- we were there just a week before Katrina -- we were soooo lucky in that regard. But definitely a place I want to visit again -- love the people and hospitality. Our house is all electric and our bill is $130/month total on a budget -- for heat, air, all appliances, etc We are lucky, but we live in Iowa and it's cheaper to live here. Sometimes I actually pinch myself when I pay that bill, it still seems unreal to me -- even after six years. Janet, I kept forgetting to tell you that in that pic of you and your girlfriends at the concert, you looked like you were out with your "older" sisters - don't tell your friends I said that but you looked so fabulous and young in that pic!! You looked fantastic!! Arlene, glad to hear your DD is doing so good and that the new older sister is being so careful of Bethany. I just love little kids with their new siblings - usually so sweet. Sorry to hear the mosquitos love you too - they always love to drink my blood. Phyl, hope your having a fun trip -- glad you're able to visit family all along the way. Melissa, hope you're okay -- hope it wasn't appendix. Sure sounded like it though. Laura, loved all the pics -- you are one busy lady!! Wow, hope you find some time for yourself too. We got home late yesterday afternoon -- stopped at the store, then I went home and made a bunch of food -- homemade sauce with meatballs, cooked some chicken and made homemade chicken noodle Soup and enough chicken for another casserole. Then I had to make a dessert for this guy at work who won the gourmet dessert of the month raffle we did for Relay for Life -- it was my month to make it -- lucky for me he requested the Buster Bar Dessert - so easy to make -- So I whipped that up and dropped it off to him after my lunch today. So at least there's food there for the gang this week -- maybe Katie will be able to eat and get fattened up a bit. They do have her on some new meds which she said have been helping with her eating -- she's gained several pounds this week -- so that's good. Apples, you are working today, should be back on line tonght I figure. Joyce, I love the American Dolls - your GD will love it. Hopefully things will settle down a bit with me. I did manage to go to Water aerobics this morning. I feel so much better when I can get in the water and stretch. CBL. Have a good night everyone,. Linda

Morning everyone, Arlene Bethany is just gorgeous -- wow, really really gorgeous! You are such a sweet mom to go clean for your DD -- how nice of you. Hope your DD starts to feel better soon -- those hormones can do such terrible things to us ladies. Lori, so sorry to hear your bad news about having to go back to Hawaii -- poor you -- LOL. So cute - your DH is a cutie -- which island this time? Gwen, welcome back and I say if you lost 1/2 lb. a week while on a cruise you did beautifullly - so much temptation on cruises - so I congratulate you on your success. Well done! Cheri, sorry your DD is having problems - sorry about her hair - I know how troubling that can be -- but it will grow out again. Very cute stories about your grandkids - my first kiss was on the school bus in kindergarten -- and I've never ever forgotten that -- Dale Reese -- lol. I'm sure your GS won't ever forget his gf - wouldn't it be something if they ended up together later on? LOL. Katie says they may let her out of the hospital Mon or Tues. They are working with her - she has bad neuropathy of her organs - that is what is causing all her other problems (as we have long suspected). They told her the bottom line is: "if you want to live you WILL take readings, insulin and be accountable. You WILL quit smoking EVERYTHING and you WILL eat the right kinds of food." Right now she is saying she's going to change and do everything so we will continue to hope. She also made the decision to draw up a will and have my DS and DIL be the guardians for Aylah if something happens. I am very relieved and proud of her for making this decision -- they are the most responsible people -- they are very kind, generous and loving. They work hard and have the money to raise a child. And, they have no children of their own. This is a huge relief to me cause I don't think I could do it -- I'm totally exhausted just from the past several weeks. This is a win-win situation for me and DH and we are very happy about it. She has talked to Aylah's dad and he's agreeable to it -- heck, he's only seen her twice in her life and I would be terrified to have her go live with a stranger. Plus, we don't know him at all and he lives in Colorado. He only works part time -- plus he's remarried and we don't know his wife. We don't know their lifestyles - do they drink, do drugs, argue, etc. So I am grateful he is agreeable to all of this. Tonight we are going to see Sylvia Browne -- I've alwasys wanted to see a psychic in person and in action to see if I think they are "real" or not. Interesting. My DH lost his dad when he was 12 and it would be so cool (if it's real) if he got a message from his dad. He adored his dad. Balletgirl, good for you -- that's right -- if you don't buy it you can't eat it -- congrats on your new outlook. Well, I'm off to the gym. Hope everyone has a great weekend. Remember 9-11 today -- always remember. My thoughts and prayers going out to the victims' families today. Such a hard time for them. Love to all -- I'll report in tomorrow. Linda

Hi everyone, sorry I've been absent a few days -- checked in tonight to see if there was any Julie news -- glad she called Great to let us know. I pray they find some answers for her. Katie is doing okay -- still in hospital -- not sure for how long. The Mayo said her virus was Candida Glabrata which is basically a yeast infection -- at least from what I read on line. I guess because her resistance has been so compromised during the past year, it just caused infection in her entire body and finally in her lungs -- not sure as I have not talked directly with any doctors. Laura if you have any infor on this, I'd appreciate anything you know. That's what the Mayo discovered from the cultures. Not much else going on - busy with Aylah every night -- had to do homework with her the past couple of nights -- she's in preschool for crying out loud - not even 4 years old yet -- honestly! Laura, you and Nelson looked great in the pics - looked like a great day for you both. I want to be cremated - I'm claustrophobic so no casket for me. When mom died, no service, she was cremated and that was that -- we each grieved in our own way. We knew it was coming - it was okay but I think if someone died young or unexpectedly, you'd have to have a service -- to get closure. I agree with what most of you said -- Celebrate the life and know that the person is in a much better place, free of pain. I cry just thinking of someone dying -- doesn't take much to make me cry. I'm not as emotional as I used to be which I find interesting -- seems like I'm getting tougher in my old age. Arlene congrats on Bethany's birth, glad it all went smoothly. Balletgirl, in my opinion, you are too tight -- if you can't eat meat you are too tight -- when I saw my surgeon last momth he said when you are too tight and you can't eat Protein you tend to gain weight because you are eating the wrong kinds of foods -- sounds like what is happening to you -- if I were you, I'd have at least .500 cc taken out -- you can always get it put back in. I had .500 taken out and I feel so much better because I can eat more protein and I have more energy to exercise more -- I was feeling really lethargic when I couldn't get as much protein in as I needed. LauraK, glad you had a fun weekend. Eva, wtg on the walking - you're doing great - how many more days of work? Lori, hope you got that smoke alarm off -- I'm also sensitive to noises -- that can reallly make you crazy. Joyce, congrats on winning the biirth time pool -- I missed that somehow. Gotta get to bed - -alarm set for 5:30 -- so gotta get - only 4 -1/2 hours from now. We've been just so busy at work and as you know, I'm busy at home with Aylah. Love to all, thinking of you even when I'm not posting, Linda

Hi everyone. DSD is out of the woods -- off the ventilator -- it's truly just a miracle -- she is a fighter - very bullheaded (lol) but this time it's a good thing. I'm so happy she is on the road to recovery. She was even able to talk a little on the phone tonight - this is truly unbeliveable -- yesterday sitll in a coma and tonight off the machine and sitting in a chair. I am so thankful. DH and Aylah will visit tomorrow - -they are moving her out of critical care and I assume a regular room. We still haven't heard what it is exactly -- will get the results from Mayo hopefully tomorrow. What a relief. Again, though, I hope it's a wake up call for her. Today was busy -- did some cleaning and Aylah and I baked some banana muffins, chocolate chip Cookies and ooey gooey butter cookies. This doesn't tempt me -- doesn't bother me at all - i love to bake and I've eaten it all before -- no need to taste it. Aylah will deliver some to her Grandma for her trip home and to the nurses who took good care of her mommy -- did a card for her to give too. Had a little bbque here -- I made DH his favorite broccoli salad and he cooked himself a steak and me sme chicken. So it was a good Labor Day. Really happy things have turned around. We couldn't be more thankful. Aylah had her bath and I washed her hair -- quite an ordeal -- I've never had to wash it before -- with her hair you don't wash it very often - but she did great -- only cried a little. She's been so very good for us. Such a trooper. Well, I just wanted to share the good news . hopefully the rest of the week will continue with improvements and we'll be bringing her home soon. Take care everyone Linda

Katie has improved a bit today and they say her blood gases are getting better and she's breathing more on her own, so they keep adjusting the ventilator and say she may be able to get off of it in a few days. Lung x-ray hasn't gotten any worse -- we are still waiting to find out what it is -- won't know probably until tomorrow (earliest). We feel confident in her care and the hospital she is in -- they are all excellent. She's still in critical care but we do feel that she's out of the woods a bit. Making some salads for DH and Aylah and I are going to bake some Cookies for the nursing staff She will go to school in the morning and after school DH and her will go back to visit her GM from Oregon one more time and pick up DSS who stayed at the hospital with his mom. Hope you are all having a good day - we are having a lovely lower humidity day and we have all the windows/doors open so nice to have some fresh air for a change!! CBL. Thanks again for all the love you all sent our way -- can feel it. Linda

julie, sorry about the movie, I'm sorry to hear it isn't very good, I was kinda hoping it would be a good one. I am so excited for you that your appt. is just 4 days away. Speaking of the Mayo, that is where the cultures from the brochscopy are being grown so I feel very confident that Mayo will find out what is causing SD the problems. a little bit of improvement yesterday -- I don't know -- I thought she was on a ventilator but I guess it was a respirator -- now they switched her to the ventilator -- because she was breathing somewhat on her own -- it was an improvement -- so whichever one is an improvement - I haven't talked to the doctors/nurses directly - DH is doing all of that so all I know is what tells me. Yesterday her GM and Aunt went up to see her and stopped here on the way home - they live in Davenport IA -- on the Ill border -- about 150 miles east of us. We are going up this afternoon -- taking Aylah up to meet her GM (who lives in Oregon). I still cannnot even fathom not meeeting your ONLY grandchild for a few months short of four years. Last night Aylah and I printed a bunch of pictures of Aylah and her mom and all of us - camping, etc. and mounted them and decorated with stamps and stickers -- got some great stickers at Walmart yesterday -- $1 a sheet. We made a bunch and we'll decorate her closet door so when she's up and about she'll have pics of Aylah all over to encourage her to get better and get home! Aylah and i had a talk about it all and she understands what is going on -- she knows her mommy can't talk right now and that she is in a hospital and they're trying to make her better. She is so mature. Honestly, sometimes I feel like she's 15. When we were at Walmart yesterday she wanted some pink dressy shoes -- I couldn't say no -- so she's wearing them all over the house now -- she loves them so much. I love that kind of stuff, that's what makes the memories. LOL. By the way, Merry had her stitches out Friday and DH said the vet and staff were very impressed with how well she was getting around. Her normal routine used to be when she pooped, she'd run all over the yard and come in the house and run all over the house -- living room to dining to kitchen, to all bedrooms and do that route for several times. So of course, she hasn't been doing that -- well, last night she ran twice around the yard --and then ran inside but then kinda stopped as if to say, "oh, I forgot". It was so cute - DH said he thought she really did forget -- so truly she IS back to her old self. So cute. Laura, saw the pics on FB -- love that your folks came -- how long will they stay -- I hope it's a good visit -- they look wonderful -- you look wonderful too. Enjoy your visit -- how'd the prime rib turn out? Yes, it's expensive, but so worth it -- we have iti for Christmas every year. Jodi, glad you are safe and Earl wasn't too bad -- enjoy your week at the island -- it's good that others are helping out with Dassi's school needs -- so much for a single parent. Good for you for the spokesmodel position -- sounds wonderful -- maybe NOW you'll be discovered by some talent agent -- scouting on Lap Band site -- you never know. LOL. Maybe you'll be the next NJ housewife! Or will the ads be on tv? Wow, for sure you could get discovered!! WTG. I bet that will make Dassi very proud of you. Arlene, will be thinking of you and DD and Bethany - I'm sure all will go well. Can't wait to see the first pic of Bethany. Cheri, we have a GS we've never met -- it's heartbreaking. They took him from her three times -- once shortly after birth cause she tested dirty when she delivered, then they gave him back at 3 months then took him away again around 6 months, then they put her and him in a rehab facility where they let the mothers have their babies when he was a year old - well, she didn't make it -- refused to follow the rules of the house -- sneaking out at night, meeting boys, etc. so that was then they said "he's gone forever." It was hard for us cause we had planned to going to her graduation ceremony (it was like a month away when they tossed her out of there) and picking them up and bringing them both with us to Iowa when we moved here from So. Cal. We decided not to take on the responsibility of raising him, although that was a very difficult decision. He had had the same foster parents each time and they wanted to adopt him, so they adopted him in an "open" adoption. Katie gets once a year pictures and updates - he has autism, various other problems, goes to a special school, etc. It's all very sad. He would be one of your students if he was in your area. He's a very handsome young man, now 7. Now you see some of the background we've had with katie and why it's so frustrating for us. It's been a long, long road. Gotta get to the gym. Have a good day and I'll CBL. Again, thanks to all of you for your thoughts and prayers -- they are working - I truly believe in prayer and the power of positive thinking. Love you all, Linda

Morning everyone, just checking in. They did a CT scan last night to check her other organs and the report was good -- appears everything else is functioning okay. She hasn't gotten any worse, so that's encouraging. Still waiting for the cultures to grow. Her mom flew in (of course, she's only good when there's a crisis or a other big events). She got a ticket through Red Cross. I guess she's staying at the hospital as she has no money. Anyway, she's never met Aylah so of course she wants us to bring Aylah up to meet her. DH says there's a nice big area we could meet her (like a park) for a few hours on hospital grounds. She's staying until Wed. Actually, I'm relieved she's here because it will save us from having to go back and forth so much - it is about 70 miles each way, So it will give us a bit of a break. So that's my news. Aylah is still not asking questions -- so that's kind of weird I think. She's happy and playing and is her normal self -- it's amazing how kids are really. Thanks for all the prayers - I feel it's helping. Gonna get dressed and get to the gym for a good work out -- haven't been since Wed. night -- need to go. Cheri, DSS is 21 -- almost 22 -- so he's plenty old enough to be on his own. He's a grand manipulator and is good looking and charms everyone -- but I'm the one person he can't charm and fool so it gets him (and me) in trouble with each other cause I call him on all his crap. He also needs to take better care of himself -- he's also juvenile diabetic and doesn't take readings/shots as he's supposed to. he's bee seriously ill in the past too - nothing ever seems to sink in with them. I was thinking about that last night -- wondering if when Katie is better if she'll just come back home and pick up her cigarettes again - I sure hope not, but it won't surprise me. part of our fight last weekend was because we found out both DSS and her were back into smoking pot and neither one of them have any business doing drugs of any kind. Katie had a child taken by the State of Oregon 6 years ago because of past drug abuse -- she has no business doing any kind of drugs. Which makes us wonder if her condition has anything to do with smoking pot - my DH said he read something about some pot being laced with some substance that's causing people to get sick. He told the doctor everything so if it was something like that they should be able to deal with it. Have a good day and enjoy your long weekend everyone. Linda

Hi everyone, Am finally able to take a quick look at the posts I've missed. Step Daughter's name is Katie. We had all this drama with her and her brother over the weekend and Monday (having to do with the choices they are both making and that we don't approve of and then they team up against us and try to intimidate us with their crap). Then bam this new health crises hit us. As you all know she's been sick for over a year with what is apparently severe pancreatis (she's juvenile diabetic). When she was in the hospital over the weekend she told us it was the same old problem and she also had kidney problems -- and they thought she may have kidney failure -- so when we found out about the pnumonia on Wednes evening we were shocked - and for it to be so severe - her doctor called us at home Wednes evening (thank goodness this is a small town and the doctors all know us well from both these kids being so sick so much), and asked us to come to the hospital to meet with him. We figured it must be the kidney issue - maybe she was in failure and they were going to start dialysis or something. So we were totally ignorant about any kind of breathing issues. Anyway to make a long story short, we talked with her and reassured her and she apologized for recent drama and then we had her transported up to Des Moines so a lung specialist could take care of her. And you know the rest. DH was with her all day yesterday before and after the procedure - but she's just in an induced coma so not much for us to do except to check to make sure she's receiving good care (she is) and to take care of Aylah. So that is where we are at -- we must just hope that they can find a drug to work on the pnumonia -- what we were told is that the regular antibiotics they give for that weren't working -- so they aren't even sure now that it is pnumonia -- doctor is asking us to check out her apt. for mold, etc. But Aylah is doing fine -- so far. Trying to catch up on posts -- Janet, I actually did get DSS in a apt. a year and half ago -- found the apt, helped find used furniture AND paid his rent for 6 months -- then he decided to go to Oregon to try to live with his DM -- then he just appeared on our doorstep again last year around Thanksgiving -- and this time the drama was again cause he lost yet another job and was starting to not do the chores around the house we ask of him for living with us free AND he hangs out with the wrong people, puts his friends ahead of his responsibilities, etc. So he moved out and was pissed at ME because of it -- because I told him what a stupid idiot he was for losing another job for stupid reasons! Part of the deal of allowing him to live with us was for him to pay off his fines that he owes so he could then think about getting his license back and then go to school -- so when he keeps losing jobs and staying out all night that's when I call him on it then I'm the BAD guy - and then his sister got involved, and we had a big go round. Plus we expect him to take care of his diabetes too which he doesn't do either. Anyway, not meaning to complain or be negative, but everytime he moves out it's a relief. I just don't think we do him any favors letting him sponge off us. Yes, Jamet, the house is much cleaner when he's gone too - plus we find things broken a lot. I had none of these problems with my own DS. I'm sure Andrew will miss living with you - but it's time for YOU and hope you get some quiet -- you deserve it after all you've done for him. Sounds like the changes at work will be beneficial to you -- glad to hear that. Arlene you are such good Mom -- so nice of you to clean and take your DD out for pedis and dinner -- and watch the kids. She's lucky to have you. Hope Bethany arrives soon!! Lori, you too -- glad DD is coming for the weekend. Sounds like a fun time buying baby furniture - enjoy!! We called it "pop" in Ohio but when I moved west in the 70s they called it "soda" -- so I do now and I'm back in the midwest where it's "pop" again. I call stuffed cabbage "pigs in blanket" or "glumpies" too - as well as stuffed cabbage. Haven't made that in a long time -- will make some when it gets cooler out. I use a bed of sauerkraut and tomatoes and garlic to lay mine in -- and cook them long and slow in the oven in low temp. Julie, so glad Mayo is finally just around the corner. Good luck and I'll be thinking of you next week. Also, Julie, we went through much the same type of drama with my step kids (their mother turned into a drug addict after the divorce) and we had to step in and file for custody -- it was hard and expensive but the kids were safe (kind of screws them up though because she walked away and didn't make any effort to be in their lives). It's very tough raising someone else's child - I raised three step kids and as you all know it's been very tough. Eva, unfortunately my step kids seemed to have gotten the "addict" gene and didn't wise up from their mother's mistakes - I do hope Robbie continues to understand that doing drinking, etc. isn't a good life. Well, gang, time to get home -- have a good weekend, and I'll check in and keep you informed. Cheri, hope you have a restful weekend - hugs and prayers for your niece too. To all of you -- thanks for all your kind words and prayers. Linda

Hi everyone, just a quick note as I have to get ready for work. Step daughter gravely ill -- looked like double pneumonia but it wasn't responding to treatment -- moved her to Des Moines hospital Wednes. and she's now on a ventilator -- did a broncoscopy (sp?) yesterday and will wait for cultures - several days. Have her on a feeding tube -- will be on a ventilator for several weeks. As you all know her body is very weak so please pray for her and my little Aylah. We want everything for our GD and that includes having her mom survive and be in her life. It is very hard on my DH and me as this is what we have been fearing for so long and we feel so helpless and out of control. Hopefully it will all turn around and be fine, but we need help with prayers. Thank you all, I'll try to stay in touch and keep you updated. Aylah is with us and is doing fine -- not asking questions yet. Love you all. Linda

Hi all, Apples welcome back. I'm just checking in. Was up at 4:30 a.m. and went to the gym -- did 35, 40 and 20. I forgot to mention yesterday about the hip replacement recall -- not sure if any of you saw it on the news. I called my surgeon and found out (thankfully) that he doesn't use the company that manufactured the parts that are being recalled so I was happy with that (and thankful). So then I decided to ask about why I'm having some hip pain so he asked what I've been doing and I told him recumbent bike, elleptical, some treadmill, weight machines for upper and lower body. He asked me how much weight and I told him -- which isn't much compared to Janet (I was only doing between 55 and 90 lbs. depending on the machine). He was not happy -- he said, "you do not have permission to use weights on your lower body that high -- keep it to 20 lbs. -- well, that's like nothing!!! He said to wait for 2 weeks and start back at 20 and if I have pain to go lower or stop altogether . Bummer - I guess I'll have to get most of my exercise with cardio only and upper body only. Apples, that was such a sweet story -- bless that little one's heart -- how cute - I would like a painting/print of that - so adorable. Glad you had a great time. My DH does lots of chores around the house -- so I'm lucky in that regard as well. Jessica, yes, I agree you definitely need a conference - has she recently switched from teaching older children or something? Sounds like she has some issues either with her expectations of this age group or for some reason is picking on Jake. Sorry to hear that, but you are doing the right thing to question her. Welcome Susan. I was 57 when I had my lap band surgery -- it was the best decision I ever made. Congrats on your decision and finding this group -- the next best thing I ever did was finding Janet and the others here. Well gang, I need to get going. Eva, glad you had a good time. Janet, I hear you about your job -- it's much the same in the lawfirm environment -- and I had bosses like that for many years. It's so nice not to deal with crap like that anymore. Hugs on that, hope it all gets better. Having more drama with family -- won't go into detail but I'm having a very tough time Please keep me in your thoughts (prayers) I need all the help I can get right now. Thanks, Linda

Morning all, at work, so not much time. I'm grateful that I was able to resolve my computer issues -- messed around with that yesterday and finally got a system restore to work and got rid of the problem! Whew, feel like I dodged a bullet. Hope you all have a great day and a great week. Working early this week - hoping to go work out after work. Linda

Hi everyone. I didn't realize Merry wouldn't have a stump either -- surprised me as well -- I guess it's better for them supposedly, but I thought she said when I spoke to her on the phone that she was only going to go up about 1-1/2" from the tumor -- so not sure why. Maybe the tumor was growing up higher than she thought -- my DH is the one who picked her up and talked to the vet after the surgery, but he didn't ask either. I'll have him ask Fri. when he takes her in to get the stitches removed. Phyll, love those pics -- you looked so beautiful - absolutely stunning (and so healthy too). Janet, yes, it was me who still would like to get us on either Oprah or the Doctors -- the Doctors would be great -- maybe they'd give us all free PS -- so I'll work on it this year again. Step daughter back in the hospital tonight -- honestly, do I ever get a free weekend? I hate to complain, but I'm so sick and tired of it. Plus, step son got fired tonight from his job - found out he'd been lying to us (again) and calling in sick and then hanging out with his friends instead of working. So, here it is 12:30 a.m. and I'm up because I'm pissed off at the world and can't sleep. I'm just so tired of feeling like I'll never be free of responsibilities -- will these kids ever grow up and take care of themselves and take care of business? Neither one of them can hold down a decent job - what the heck do they think they are going to do when we are gone? It scares me that they refuse to grow up, refuse to become responsible adults. It's very much the way their mom and her family are -and I sometimes wish they'd both just go and live with them in Oregon. If it weren't for Aylah. . .I couldn't bear not having her in my life. So, I'm having a pity party for myself, sorry girls, don't mean to be a downer but this is the part of my life that I try to keep hidden with my humor. It is so depressing. And if that wasn't enough, now I have some freaky virus on my computer -- it took me 45 mins to get on here. Eva, good going on the 4 miles -- and a hilly walk at that -- that's a great workout. Years ago I used to walk 5 miles a day -- outside - and I loved it -- I did that for many years and hardly ever missed a day -- I just don't like walking outside any more -- except I LOVED walking on the beach when I was in Florida last month -- it was fabulous. I guess I don't like walking on concrete or something. Well, now there's a recall on the parts for the hip replacement -- and my hip is still killing me so now I'm really concerned that I have those bad parts. I'll be calling my surgeon Monday to find out if I'm unlucky enough. Please think good thoughts on this -- cause I'd have to have it done again -- even though it'd be free I still don't want to go through that again. Geez. Charlene, I remember now that it was a girl cause her name is much like my sisters -- I'd forgotten that. Hope it all goes well -- will be thinking of you and your daughter next few days. Melissa, I hope you start to feel well enough to try to look for another job -- it's really hard when you're so sick. Remember what Cheri said -- maybe reach out and ask for some assistance from church -- or some other agency. Have you started getting your unemployment? Have you checked to see how much it would cost to get your own policy instead of cobra? Can your DH get coverage at his job -- you can sign up mid year if you can show change of situation - and your being laid off is a definite change of situation. Well, all I'll close. take care and have a great Sunday everyone. Linda

Welcome Marie, let us know how you are feeling and if you have any questions, we'll all be happy to help. Congratulations on your decision to choose health. Tell us a bit about yourself. Janet (Indio) is our fearless leader -- most of us have been posting here for several years -- but we are always happy to have someone new join our group -- you'll get lots of support here so don't hesitate to jump in and join us. Welcome, welcome, welcome!

Janet your pics are fabulous both before and after - before really shows what a huge change has been made. I think what you wrote was great -- very well done and what you wrote would be considered "short" enough for that purpose -- they just don't want someone to write 5000 words. I love color too (just one more way we are so much alike) and have always worn color and prints no matter what my size. I had to laugh at your comment about how you thought you looked cute in the skirt - well you did look cute -- for your size but oh how much cuter and healthier you look now -- that's what I notice right away -- the healthier look we all have after losing weight. You did not look like you even felt well in those before pics and I'm sure you didn't feel well. LauraK, have a great time with your family -- sounds like fun -- enjoy and have fun celebrating all three birthdays. Your mom and dad must have enjoyed spending time together over Thanksgiving (9 months before August). LOL. Cheri, I live around a lot of Dutch people here and I've always thought the women are especially beautiful and elegant -- my DDIL is dutch and she is tall and beautiful too. As my DS is 6'5" they are a good match - she's 5'11" I think. On the other hand I'm now lucky if my head reaches the 5'1" mark -- and so I always wish I were taller. Nothing is made for short people - especially cupboards, shelves in grocery stores, etc. It never fails that I have to ask a taller person to reach things for me in a store. I guess I need to carry around either a step stool or one of those grabbers. I had an accident once last year -- I was trying to reach frozen yogurt in the freezer section and it was on the top shelf and I was jumping trying to reach it and knocked one off that landed on my shin and I had a giant goose egg -- it was so painful. Julie, hope the pain has subsided somewhat today. I'm so sorry that you have to go through so much pain all the time. I wish there was something someone could do to alleviate it until you go to Mayo. Melissa, glad the inhalers are helping -- hope you are well enough to go next weekend, sounds like fun. Hope you get better every day -- good thing you aren't working cause if so you'd have been stressing out about missing work or you would have went to work sick and that wouldn't have been good either. Well, we took Merry's bandages off today -- so I took pics. Hope they don't bother any of you -- she's doing so well and her inicision looks great. BTW Janet, it was the right front leg. Remember when we had her groomed last time and I said they went a little crazy with the shears -- and then they had to shave her more for the surgery -- she looks "skinned" and so skinny - can't wait til her longer hair grows back in again. We took her for a car ride (her favorite thing) last night. DGD was with us and so we stopped and got them some soft ice cream (another of Merry's favorite things). I got my butt back to the gym this morning and had a good workout - 35, 45 and 30. Oh Janet, confession is good for us -- I never did admit to the fair food I ate - I had quite a few "bites" of fried things but my biggest downfall was the cheese/caramel popcorn mix (in the same bag) -- I inhaled a whole bag (probably about 3 cups - not a huge bag) of it the day we too Aylah to the fair and then HAD to HAVE another bag when we went to see the Family Stone -- there, i admitted it - honestly though, it tasted fabulous to me -- really good -- sorry your slip wasn't at least tasty. All in all this week I did okay -- went to the gym Sun., and Water aerobics Mon. and Friday and back to the gym today so I guess I won't die. I feel like I'm not working out enough but I think my body needs the break. Gotta get busy - got some chores that need done. Linda

Hi Everyone, I've been reading, but no time for posting the past few days. This is our busiest time of the year at work, so super busy every day. My little Merry is doing really great -- today when I was home for lunch she jumped up on the couch - she ran up the stairs this morning and she's been going down the stairs by herself since Wednesday. So for right now she's almost back to normal - she hasn't tried to run much but I'm sure she will soon. We are happy we made this decision. She's had a good appetite since the surgery and her bandage comes off tomorrow. Things are good with her. Thanks for all your prayers, good wishes, concerns, etc. I'm sure it all aided in her healing process - I felt the love and I'm sure she did as well. Apples, you are too funny -- the cake recipes sounded good, don't delete them. Hope you're enjoying the lake - I can't wait until I retire to relax a bit and enjoy some books and quiet time. Sounds so wonderful right now. Hope your arm is doing good and pain is better. Loved, loved loved that wedding picture - you were so elegant and DH so handsome!! Wow, what a good looking couple!! Julie, hope you have a restful weekend - your bars and Cookies for the wedding sound so good - you must have a huge freezer - I used to bake a lot at Christmas and I'd have to clear out the entire freezer to fit it all in. How's Mimi doing in school? My Aylah starts preschool next Tuesday and she has a homework assignment she and I have to work on this weekend - they gave us a cut out of a person and we have to decorate it to be Aylah -- show her personality, etc. It will be fun to do with her -- she's very creative already and has definite ideas about what she wants and what colors, etc. She's very fussy about her clothes, etc. -- honestly it's like she's 14 already. Janet, I was laughing so hard at the 119 and the car weighing you - thank God they can't weigh us - imagine our weight being posted in plain view of everyone in our car!! Oh wait, maybe we wouldn't have gotten so obese if it was posted for all to see. LOL. Funny. Thanks for your concern about Merry - but honestly, now that's it's over it's such a huge relief and I can attest that it was the right thing to do - and I would recommend anyone else to do the same thing -- she is my happy little sweetie again. Laura, sorry to hear about all your repairs happening all at once!! That's the way it always goes. LOL on your repairman descriptions -- too funny. Great story about Dom -- loved that -- did you eat your pizza? Did anyone get to eat their pizza? Wonder what they did with them - hopefully donated them to a shelter or somewhere. LOL. I bet Nelson won't forget to unplug the pool vaccuum first next time. That's an expensive lesson though. Glad you made it through the first week of school -- you'll always remember this first week. Jodi, I hope the "nice" guy is a keeper - sounds intriguing. You are such a wonderful mom -- you and Dassi will always have a great relationship -- she's a lucky girl to have you as her mom. Cheri, how are you? Hopefully not too exhausted from this first week of school -- enjoy your weekend. Jessica and Laura, I'm so happy you are both volunteering and it will be very helpful for you and your sons -- I was able to volunteer when my step kids were in grade school. I was only able to do it for just one year, but I really got to know everyone at the school and being "known" by principal and staff was very helpful to both me and the kids and that lasted throughout the entire time they were in that school. Hope you have fun at the beach with Jake -- he'll have a blast for sure -- relax and enjoy. Take a nice long walk on the beach - it's great exercise. Leave Jake with in-laws and take some time for just you. Lori, hope you and DD are enjoying yourselves -- you are most likely buying some "baby" stuff I bet. I would think it would be so hot for hunting -- they must do it very early in the morning at high altitudes? And Lori, you are NOT fat - no way -- we'll work on this next month in Vegas -- I have some of the same issues -- but because we're not at smaller sizes I think it's harder for us -- I'm still wearing 14s and just getting into 12 pants and when I was this weight before I wore size 8s so I'm feeling "fat" although I know in my heart I'm not. We'll parade (strut) around and ask strangers what they think in Vegas - afterall we'll never see them again. LOL. LauraK, hope you have a great weekend with BF -- glad you and he are working it out -- you deserve to be happy, happy, happy!! Any news from your DD? Hope she's doing okay. Judy, how's your puppy -- I hope all is well - enjoy it -- you deserve love and happiness too -- who cares about AGE? You're as old as you feel -- so maybe you are younger than him in many ways. Just relax and forget everything else and have some fun. My DM had lots of fun - she used to say her real life didn't begin until she was in her mid-50s and she enjoyed herself most during those years (she always had lots and lots of BFs). LOL. Thanks again for all the encouragement and support during my tramatic decision about Merry -- I appreciated it very very much. Joyce, you are doing great -- one day at a time -- did you get a fill? I'm having CRS and can't remember -- hope it puts you at your sweet spot. Charlene, any baby yet? Will be hoping for a quick and painless delivery for your DD and a healthy mamma and baby!! I can't remember - is it a girl or boy or don't you know? Melissa, hope you are on the mend -- sending healing vibes your way. Phyl, hope the wedding is beautiful (know it will be). Is Zoey going to be allowed to attend? If so, did you buy her a special outfit for it? Hope you enjoy your visit with family and have a safe trip back to So. Cal. If you get anywhere close to southern Iowa, let me know. Eva, hope you have a nice weekend planned and enjoy it. I did go to Water aerobics this morning. Didn't have a great exercise week this week -- life got in the way more than usual -- still tired out but will hit it hard tomorrow and Sunday. Working 8 to 5 next week so it will be even tougher to get up and go -- maybe I can go at night next week instead as I'll get off earlier - that would work out well I think. Well, hope everyone has a great weekend.

Good Morning everyone. I have just a few minutes before needing to get ready for work. We've been so busy at work from the moment I arrive that I have no time to post Apples welcome back. I attend the same church you do. Hope your arm/wrist is getting better. I'm also very sad to hear about Jacqi -- she's worked so hard and has been so helpful here on LBT -- and she's so young. I wll pray for her. She's in Austrailia, isn't she? To answer your question, no I'm not wearing any work out shoes -- I just hurt from over doing it I think. I have rods/screws in my back and the aritificial hip -- my DH whose had his artifical hips for over 10 years say his hurt when he over does it too - we have a little arthritis as well and of course my fibromylgia -- so I live with daily pain and have for over ten years. Janet, Merry is much better. I think the drugs are what was causing all the problems the first night -- yesterday morning we got up and with the help of her blanket wrapped around her middle part for support we got her up and wallking around. She had difficulty on the hardwood floor in the dining room which is her pathway to go outside, it's just too slippery for her to manuver and again she isn't ready for the stairs so we use the blanket to help her in those areas but she went outside to do her business yesterday and last night. She's eating well and drinking and we got her antibiotic and pain meds down her with no problem. She went back to the vet to have her bandage changed yesterday and they said incision looks good. She was able to get up and walk around on her own pretty well last night. DGD and DSD stopped by for a quick visit and she was happy to see them. So the worst is over. We all slept in our bed last night -- she is clingy right now and wants to be sitting with me or laying next to me all the time. Usually she's more independent at night and prefers her own bed, so I'm kind of enjoying her being close right now. It was the only decision we could have made and it was the right one. Not sure if I mentioned it but the last few days of that tumor were really bad - her skin actually split open exposing her raw flesh so if we hadn't done it she would have most likely gotten a terrible infection and had a terribly painful death. She's back to her own sweet self and I'm sure in a week or so will be running around like always. I read on line that they don't have the same psychological issues we have about losing limbs -- so that was a relief. They just accept it and adapt and live their lives. Too bad we humans aren't that way. Julie, so sorry about the continuing pain. Just a couple more weeks until Mayo and some answers. I'm sure you're sick of hearing the words "hang in there" but try to make yourself as comfy as you can and if you can just take it completely easy until then it would help. I know how hard that is too but I'm sure your DH would be willing to do some extra chores around the house so you woudl have some relief. Laura and Jess - congrats on getting through the first day of school -- I remember those days. DGD starts preschool next week -- she's excited - I'm excited for her so she has some structure in her life. Well, I gotta get ready for work. Cheri, Cleveland Clinic has been around forever -- always has been a very fine establishment --very much the same as Mayo -- it's the Mayo for that area. My DGF went there for his cancer treatments in the 60s 70s. The plan sounds good but will not be easy - I agree - do not do it without a contract and agreement with all sibs or there will be trouble -- and heartache. Hopefully I'll be back later Eva, enjoy your last few weeks at work (lol). Love you all Linda

Hi everyone, just quick note. Merry is home although she's pretty drugged up -- pretty hard on us to see her this way. She is crying a lot and seems to have a lot of pain. They gave us pain meds but said she doesn't need any addtional tonight. She's just been laying in one spot on the floor in the living room all night. DH tried to pick her up to take her downstairs to bed but she screams when he tries so we decided to just leave her upstairs tonight. I may have to sleep next to her on the couch -- poor baby. Busy at work. Did get up and went to Water aerobics this morning. Try to check in tomorrow. Must go sit with my baby. Linda

Good afternoon all. Just got home from the gym. Did a super work out -- 30 on bike, 45 on elleptical and 30 on weights. I had great energy and feel fantastic right now and I have the rest of the day to enjoy. Jodi what's up with you? Haven't seen you post for a little while. Is Dassi home from camp yet? Our little one starts preschool on the 30th too - she is super excited. She walked into the kitchen this morning and said, "could you turn the tv down for me? The noise is making me nervous." Honestly where in the world do they get this stuff? We need a new Art Linkletter to interview kids - that was always a great show -- just where to they come up with the things they say? Unbelieveable. Hope everyone has a wonderful day -- it's really hot and muggy here so I plan to just relax inside my air conditioned house. Linda

Hi everyone. Sorry I've been missing in action -- been a busy couple of days. Took GD to circus Wednes. night - very small circus -- it was basically a family of 3 people who did it all -- but it was okay for a "first" circus experience -- they even had a kid (13) that they shot out of a cannon!! She loved it, of course. Friday I had eye appt and LB doctor appt -- decided to get .5 cc's out and I'm so happy I did. I've been struggling a lot lately and had a bad episode again Wednes. -- during the circus and after we got home. It's been getting more and more often and I realized I never had a problem before I had my last fill so I decided to give myself a break and take out a little. I'd also been feeling so fatigued -- and I started thinking about it and realized I wasn't really getting all my Protein in since I wasn't able to eat much. I truly enjoyed today -- able to eat and not have that pain and stuck feeling and then pbing. So my advice to all is not to go there -- I don't think I've hurt anything but I sure have been struggling and I don't think it's necessary to struggle like that. I know what to eat and how much -- I have good enough restriction without being miserable. My surgeon agreed with me. I also whined about not losing any more and he also feels that I'm where I need to be and should not even worry about it one bit or even consider losing more. He kinda looked at me and said, "you know, you look awesome --but you also need to remember you aren't exactly a kid anymore." LOL. I know -- sigh. I stiil feel like a kid. He thinks I could get my insurance to cover ps if I document my back hurting -- he feels the excess skin could actually be a factor and now that I've lost the weight the excess skin on my belly is probably the reason my back is bothering me more. So I might check into that new surgery LauraK mentioned. I like the sounds of that recovery period a bit better. I looked on line - looks like they use some liposuction wiith it and make a much smaller incision underneath -- only about 6 to 8 inches long instead of hip to hip. I really would like to get it done if my ins. will cover it. I think I'd feel better about my weight loss too. I took the week off from exercise. My hip/back were hurting from tromping around the fair on Sunday for 12 hours -- and I was tired all week, so slept in (til 6:30 each day). Nice break, but went back to the gym today with renewed energy and enthusiasm. Think the break was good and I didn't gain any weight doing that -- stayed the same (relief). Thanks to all of you for the nice comments about my posts. You are so sweet to mention it, and I do appreciate it greatly. Julie, you are such a sweetie - your DD is so lucky to have you as a mom. You are supportive and understanding and also know when to step back and let her do what she feels is best. I admire you for that. So glad Sept. 9 is so close -- just a short while now. Congrats on your band anniversary - and yes, you've come a long way Baby!!! You've done an awesome job, especially considering all that you've been through -- I'm proud of you and know you'll go for the finish line when you get through this rough patch. Eva, I'd be so excited if I were you -- I'm so jealous -- I keep hoping I'll be able to stop work soon myself -- would love to have the freedom it will give you. Good luck with the financial advisers but I have a feeling you'll find you're in better shape than you might have thought. Hope the service for your friend went well. We attended a memorial this afternoon for the husband of a friend. It was a very nice service. He was an elderly man who died of altzheimers and each of his grandkids told a special story about their grandpa and one of the grandkids played a song that his grandpa liked on the piano and he was quite an accomplished pianist. The sons did a great job talking about their dad. It truly was one of the nicer services I've ever attended. Cheri, you are right about the Water exercise which is why I've gone back to doing water aerobics on my off gym days -- it really helps my back/hip to feel better - when I just go to the gym and then do step aerobics on my off days it makes me hurt more. Problem is that in the winter it's so darn hard to go to water aerobics -- going out in the cold with wet hair, etc. I need to retire and move south for sure. Sorry to hear about all the problems your family is experiencing. It's good you have your faith to help with all the stress. I hope things turn around for everyone soon. Janet, those classes you take are amazing!! What an inspiration! Glad to hear Bella is doing well after her surgery. I posted on FB that Merry will have her leg amputated on Monday morning. We got the report this am that they found no cancer (relief) and of course there's always worry with anesthesia with a dog that age (13), but I feel confident it will all go well. She's in such misery and pain right now that I feel sure she will be greatly relieved to have it gone. She'll come home by 4:00 Monday and they say they will only bandage it lightly and even take the bandage off in a day or two if she'll leave it alone. They make it sound like it'll be simple and I hope they're right. You mentioned Ryka shoes - I wear Ryka sandals and love them -- bought them on QVC. Apples, hope you're enjoying the lake this weekend. Gosh, I can't believe summer is almost over already -- doesn't seem possible. Your visit with Phyl, Earl and Zoey sounded wonderful -- and the pics were great too. You look fabulous as always. LauraK, happy birthday and hope you enjoyed your time at the Lake. Jess, you are amazing - you have come a long way and good for you -- you have fought and won a huge battle -- and I so admire you for not just burying your head under the covers and choosing life rather than despair when you were faced with your diagnosis. What a positive role model you are and what a great, compassionate nurse you'll be. We enjoyed our free Famiily Stone concert (no Sly but the guy who replaced him is great). They sounded fabulous -- I had seen them almost exactly 40 years ago at my high school gym (my senior year 1970). Doesn't seem possible it's been 40 years. Wow. Two of them -- the trumpet player (Cynthia) and the saxophone player are original members of the group. Laura, hope Monday goes well and you start to enjoy that little bit of freedom -- sounds like you have a good plan in place -- take the time for YOU -- you also deserve to do things for YOU. You do so much for everyone -- so use that time for Laura. I can't believe any employer would think that anyone is going to work without any vacation time -- how ridiculous is that. I'm glad you realize that wouldn't be a good thing for you and your family -- you need to enjoy time with your family and traveling is an important family activity, I'd sure hate to give that up. Volunteering sounds like a good plan, but again, be sure to leave some time for YOU so you can do what you need to do for you. Judy, hope your dinner went well -- lol on the carbs - I had to laugh cause before band we would never have thought of that meal as a carb heavy meal. We have learned a lot, haven't we? I'm sure it was delicious and hope you had a great time with your friends. Lori hope you're enjoying Maui - I've never been to that island, but I loved Hawaii the three times I've visited. The pictures are great -- hope you have a great and romantic vacation. Phyl, safe travels and I so enjoy all the photos on FB. Hope your doing well with your back/neck pain. That Zoey is just too adorable. Joyce, you're doing great -- just keep working the program and it'll happen. I really am amazed everyday I look in the mirror that I actually am the one I'm looking at. I had that moment yesterday at my surgeon's office. The nurse who checked me in and pulled my chart was new -- she's only been there a couple of weeks she said. The nurse in the room with me is the one who I've always had before. My doctor pulled out my before picture as we were talking about my inability to lose anymore and the nurse in the room said, "oh, no, she pulled the wrong chart" -- she really truly didn't think it was me in the picture. I said, "oh no Chris, I recognize that person - well, it's me but it wasn't me, not really." It was one of those moments where I truly understood that I'm finally "on the other side" and it feels good. You'll get there - you're already halfway there so you've already accomplished a huge hurdle. GD wanted to spend the night so she did. Enjoy having her. Can you girls believe I slept in until 11:30 this morning? I haven't slept that long in many, many years. Guess I really was tired out. Arlene, wtg on the walking -- you are doing such a great job -- wtg on getting DH out there too. I've had a couple pedometers but never seem to be able to get the step thing to work right. Of course, I've always bought cheap ones. I have a bad bunion too and I don't plan on doing anything to fix it -- I buy extra wide shoes and that seems to solve the problem most of the time. Since I've lost weight it's gotten better -- much less painful. Melissa, I'm proud of you -- you're doing great with your attitude. Try to take this time to get a handle on your health -- exercise and eat right -- it will really help your confidence level when you have job interviews. If you can go back to school and learn a new trade, that'd be awesome. I always told my son to go into the medical field cause there always seems to be jobs available --plus flexible schedules. Where's Peaches? Haven't seen her on here for awhile. Gwen, please don't get discouraged cause of what your ortho told you -- just keep working the program and you'll get the results you want and prove him wrong -- some doctors are like that - they just bad mouth the band cause they don't understand how it works and what the results shoud be. Gotta get to bed, have a great Sunday everyone!! Linda

Hi all, Laura, I read that here at my desk at work, oh my, what a huge mistake that was!! Sobbing my eyes out and then I copied and sent it ot my dear sweet 38 year old baby -- oh he will KILL me for that also cause he's probably sobbing at his desk now and he's the plant manager and that won't look at all too good!!! He's a big softie and we take turns trying to make each other cry with cards, etc. Oh, that pics of Nelson as your avatar is too precious -- just such a beautiful baby. I have great stories about my DS -- one was that he always got into his Christmas presents and so I thought I was being wise in wrapping them all in wrapping paper and then hiding them in the apt. Well, one year I bought him a camera and I had gotten all the presents out from hiding and had seen that some had some torn areas. I wanted him to take pics with the camera and all the presents had been opened and no camera!! So I went to his room and found it unwrapped under his bed and all the pics on the roll were already used up!!! I still wrap his presents extra well - even though he'll turn 38 this September! He played football and I still remember the feeling I had driving to his very first hs freshman game -- the next 8 years of him playing football flew by so fast that I still can't believe it's been over almost 15 years. It does go fast. Wow what a difference -- I never would have believed it was the same woman -- what an inspiration!!! I'll have to check out her blog. She is absolutely gorgeous. LauraK - -so proud of you and the walking -- keep it up and good luck with the bf -- I'm hoping it will continue to go well -- you deserve to be happy!! How is DD adjusting? Hope she still likes it out there. If she ever needs anything, call me immediately and I can hook her up with help. My ds and dil are available and would be happy to help out if needed. I'll google soft tuck -- have an appt. with my surgeon on Fri. so will ask him to recommend it for me. I need it. Janet, so sorry for the Andrew drama -- I know -- I have it at my house too and it's just something we have to keep reminding them. It's frustrating that they keep pushing our buttons and pushing the envelope -- but stay strong and you can get through it. It's heartbreaking at the time but you know it will turn out good in the end. Julie, sorry the pain interrupted your visit with Phyl. -- I need some Zoey kisses! I'm jealous! My Merry had tests done today -- won't know anything until Fri. I'm just keeping positive thoughts. She's been running around on her 3 legs all week as the tumor seems to be painful now. I just want it done now. Yum on the pork and sauerkraut - one of my favorites also -- I haven't had it in a long time! Phyl, enjoy your visit with Apples and if you ever get further south (on 80) we could get together. Hope you guys take some pics. Lori, sorry about the pb -- that sounds really bad. . I drank some sparkling wine one night after banding and had a similar experience -- never again. Haven't tried anything like that since, it tends to cure you from wanting to ever again. Have a fabulous time in Hawaii and if I were you I wouldn't work either. I'm just waiting for the day when I can stop working forever Also, have a lobster for me - that's one of the places I want to take my RV when we get one - spend a whole summer up there, I love Maine. Taking GD to circus tonight -- sure am having a busy week -- then tomorrow night is concert in park and Friday two appt. in Des Moines and then the fair and another concert. Then Sat. we have a memorial service for a friend's hubby who died. I did something really stupid I think. I read an article last week that said if you want to try to jump start your weight loss to try jogging instead of walking, etc. So I jogged on the treadmill Sat. for 5 miles and it didn't hurt at the time but my hip has been killing me ever since. So I'm taking it easy on exercise this week -- not sure if it was that or my treking at the fair -- either way I'm limping around and having pain and am afraid to do anything cause I don't want to hurt it. It's my new hip. I'm so irritated that my physical body is not cooperating with my mental state. I really enjoyed the jog too -- felt good. Charlene -- good luck to your daughter while she has her baby. Will be thinking of you! Can't believe it's already time for her to have her baby - I remember when you first talked about it -- seems like yesterday. Melissa, wtg on the job fairs!! Impressed with your renewed mental strength -- you sound great -- keep it up. I'm sure something good will happen -- this was all meant to be. Jess - good luck with school -- you sound so organized -- we're all proud of you. Hope you got your uniforms shrunk/altered -- those looked so big on you - especially the pants -- maybe you can find some pants at goodwill or something? Problem is you don't have time I'm sure. Glad your dad wanted to have the party. As a grandparent, I figured he'd be interested -- just something we like to do as grandparents. Loved the quote -- it's perfect for all of us. Eva sorry to hear about your back -- once your done with work maybe it will start feeling better -- so much walking and standing are hard on backs. And sorry about DH's shingles - one thing I don't understand. I went to my GP last year and requested the shingles shot -- he said I can't get it until I'm 60 -- well I know tons of people who get shingles before they're 60 so that is a stupid rule. Anyone know what the deal is with this? I don't want them -- I know how bad they are. Still at work, need to get something done. CBL Linda

Morning all. I just have a few minutes but wanted to say thanks for all the nice compliments -- you are all too sweet and thanks for all the "skinny" remarks - makes me smile. LOL. Phyl, hope today is much better -- hope Earl takes a chill pill and gets in a better mood. Hope your pain gets better too - it's got to be miserable to be traveling with that much discomfort. Jodi, you are great -- love hearing that embarassing is one of the worst sins and they go straight to hell - makes me feel much better knowing that woman will go to hell when she dies. Glad you enjoyed your camping weekend - I love to camp -- so much fun. Well gang, I'm still very sore from tromping around the fair so didn't get up to exercise - hopefully tomorrow I'll feel better - combo of my fibromylgia and new hip is bothering me -- so hope I haven't hurt it, I guess it just needs to rest up. Makes me mad cause I want to go, go, go, but afraid to do anything to hurt it. Have a great day everyone!! CBL Linda