I am going to an information meeting on lap band June 11th. I am scared to death, I am embarassed, I am in disbelif that I am going and I am confused. How did I get here?? I have 100 pounds to lose. There I said it. Why can't I do this??? Why is it I can't lose weight. People say oh just cut down and exercise. Please help me with a decision on a lap band. I am 57 years old and don't want to waste anymore time. I am scared about the eating after. Can you ever have a beer or pop? Please tell me what you think......Help