I feel the same way with the husband thing. He's never said anything bad about my weight, and is always super supportive, but I can't help but feel like an embarrassment. I have even asked him not to introduce me to people he knows that we run into on the street. Hopefully, that will change soon! I know it's silly, but I can't wait until I feel like the cute one in the relationship for a change!
Good luck on your journey!