yes well i thought getting married was a good idea too,,just joking but do we really no what we are getting into,,nobody really knows untill the deed is done ,,thats why i have looked at th ups and downs,,and if i have to start exercising why don't i just do that now,,i have;nt done really all that much,,but if i have to why don't i just do it now,,and forget the band,,well i don't eat right now,,thats why i'm overweight,,what makes me think i'm gonna suddenly do it with the band,,,like you said this is a tool,, and this is why i'm having these questions,,,i've passed all the tests and supposedly i'm a great canadate,,but i'm really starting to struggle,,with these questions i have for myself,,i'm 10 days away from my band date and i'm wearing 3 pairs of insulated socks if you no what i mean,,this is really some soul searching we all have to do,,man can you imagine what the early bandsters went through when they didn't have this wonderfull support group to just log on and get all this great support,,,it is all wonderful,,but i can't help to wonder if i will get buyers remorse,,trust me i'm totally normal i think,,lol i just wonder if most people have felt this way...thanks everyone