AJ Tylo

I am truly sorry about your lose, My sympathy's are with you and your family

I came out of the closet about a month ago - Tired of everyone asking how and are you sick, But I really do not care what anyone else view is on surgery. I kept it a secret except for my girlfriend and my kids. Get ready for all the questions so get you Bully poop answers ready. - Those who judge have there own issues, So to me just not worth the time or drama! I prefer to be healthy and happy and could give a F#$ck about there views or opinions on WLS surgery, especially those who have not done it or have a clue what they are talking about. This is you decision and your journey, so You do it your way!

Every Day you will get stronger and better - Make sure you have the vitamins and minerals in order

I would say none but I am not a doctor, call your doc. However I would use one of the liquid ones you put in the machine and take in the vapors - You take any strong cold and flu this early your belly is going to be a mess

Freakin Crazy - Get information on the web and good documents and send it over to them - They will settile with you or apply for aid to cover the additional - Or if it gets ugly take them to small claims court first on your own they will back down when you start to aggravate them. I did this with a heart surgery, They considered it outpatient because i was only in there 3 days - So i fired off all kinds of documents and requests and then took them to small claims court. the judge demanded mediation which worked great for me, They agreed to take my outpatient limit plus 500 dollars and wiaved the other 40k

No you are fine - Just stay on track and Stop fixating on food! It gets easier - Just flush and get back on the program -

NO STOMACHS of any animals till you can eat rubber full textured food! - Plus the calories in it are high but so is the protein - However Fluffy land JRT mom Devore Lamb Fries - So guess that is ok to eat

Brian you can tear it up when you body is ready to go - Trust me you wont need anything to reduce it the surgery will mellow you out

Ok since i am Culinary skilled by gut feeling is saying NO - For one main reason Stomach of Animals is high in fat which will most likely tear you up so early, also that is a thick heavy meat 0 However you could pressure cook Ox Tail and then blend it up. Fluffy This is a very common meat outside of the USA

Yes its called Pre and Pre made meals - Sunday i do the whole week - Done in a hour and in the fridge for the week - Some i cook some i just portion out

Its Called Head games - Life has changed - You are getting healthy and should be getting happy. All of us have gone thru a big change, I am no Doctor but I think it is hormones, and the shock and Awe to the body. You have a dog go walk him, Go do whatever you enjoy and want to do, No reason to be anxious all the time. I crashed hard after my surgery so stay on top of it

Gotta second that one above. However if it is elevation Im going to Denver to loosen myself up, I am to restricted

Get on a regular routine and blow the doctors phone up!

Starting this is not easy but try this for the hunger - Split your shakes into 6 servings and also make yourself a jar of base or broth. SIp that between shakes it will kill the hunger - Once you get the surgery the hunger goes away - Also do not forget to flood yourself with water, you can have all the water and broth you want - Get a good base or bullion from the store try and stay away from the packaged ones loaded with salt. As for picking at last nights dinner - Put on your big girl panties and just say no! F@#ck Food! Develop good habits now - Last but not least do it for the little girl you are holding - Getting healthy will allow you to live longer to see her family

The above line is all you need to realize, Your Kids need you and you are getting heathier so you can be there for them. The rest will be fixed over time - As for the Tummy get a little plastic work over and you will have a new small cute tummy. But atleast due to the surgery you will get the option. Keep you head up you got this

Very strange post

So lets Take a look at your post? Answer these questions please honestly 1, So you would have rather stayed obese and died quickly, Correct? 2. Your Tummy is ugly. So your huge tummy pre op was sexy? 3. So your depressed, So you are depressed because you are getting healthy and will live longer? 4. So no one understands you. So everyone on this site has not had any issues with wls surgery? The actual reason for the above question is you are crashing, So did I right after Stop looking for reasons to be depressed especially stupid ones like doing WLS to save your life and be healthy. It is not easy the mental part for sure but you may need to get some help. I guarantee this thread is going to blow up with posts to help you - So you are not alone, And really does a ugly tummy really matter. I am not happy with the look myself so i decided to start working out to fix it. There is a solution to every problem, just find the answer and solve the problem. I really wish you the best of luck and anything i can do to help reach out AJ

If you get the right amount thru food you are correct, However i have issues eating so no way i could get my intake in food, - It really is a open wide subject and all of us are different, for me i am extremely active a so i need the fuel and supplements and vitamins and vodka keep me going - I feel down and draggy if i do not stay on the supplements and vitamins - however my brother is fine with just one multi day vitamin a day

Very interesting videos -

Getting fixed was eneogh knives close to the jewels! Lucky i have worn support undies my whole life so No knife to that area! FYI no way im watching that video

make you own out i do not like the pre made ones either - Also i use protein waters all day - Is it the powder or the milk you do not like

Definalty not saying I am a Doctor - However i have found a generic take two and call me in the morning approach is not good for Everyone. If you get a blood test you will see how far off this take two and call me approach is, I needed a ton more then what my Doc said to take.

That is not a lot - Now some of them i only take once a week - For example what i eat has alot of calcium in it so i very rarely take the calcium. It all depends on how healthy you eat and what the blood work says! No other way to do it. Takes a second to take so not like its going to the gym for a hour and half, I take as shot of the liquid vitamins every night - I use the GNC powder multi vitamins in my protein drink I take 3 mixed multi a day - One GNC 50 mix - and Two Bariatric fusions.

Hey there fellow Floridian Naples Here - I do not know him i did Dr bass Welcome to the jungle

DO not Panic - lets look at this as basic math - 6 divided by 11 is approx 2 pounds a week! 52 weeks in year times 2 pounds EQUALS 104 POUNDS A YEAR! i do not think you could loose a hundred plus pounds the way you used to live Pre OP! Do not let the head demons get you, Stay on track and the math above does not lie! You got this - Plus when you can add some Gym time you will increase the math above! Stay focused Stay Happy and Enjoy the journey!