Astrid05

I've had my RNY date through dependant on pre op assessment, 10 Sept. It's real [emoji33] Anyone else for September op? Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app

Thank you! As I'm sure you will too [emoji2] Hopefully you'll get a date very soon [emoji108] Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app

Hi all, newbie here. I'm due for bypass surgery in september. I was wondering how you dealt with the lead up? Did you have support from friends and family? If not how did you manage that? I've found all friends and family supported the idea but now it's become reality it's been very different. I'm very much on my own and frankly, bricking it [emoji51] Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app

Hey :-) Thank you for your reply. Great you have support from your hubby. That has to be a bonus. How are you finding it? Are you hungry? I've been told I'll need to take 2 weeks off work, not ideal as I dont get sick pay. I live in Dorset. Whereabouts are you? Xxx Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app

Hey Nikkilee72 Good to hear back. I wonder if because it's such a lengthy process for those of us going through it we kind of become a bit more hardened to it. Family and friends dont think about it day in day out like we do I guess. I think you're right in that once he starts to see the benefits for your health he will feel better about it. I initially felt very let down by my mum but I've tried thinking about it from her perspective too and though it hasnt deterred me I understand her concerns. Diabeties sucks. It's my main concern also. Mine was a combination of bad diet and genetics. Fingers crossed the surgery will have a positive impact for you :-) That was my main reason for RNY though my surgeon has said the sleeve can be just as good for remission. Carbs and sugar are my downfall, this was my other reason for going for RNY. Do you have a ball park date yet? I've had the official letterl to say september sometime but no date as yet. Keep in touch :-) Would be great to hear how you're getting on. Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app

Likewise, mine is being done through NHS. I'm pretty happy with the information I've had from them. We had to attend education sessions to help prepare psychologically and physically. There are certain criteria you need to meet before they put you forward. Between that and this I'm relatively happy with what to expect. I'm certain there will be us and downs but hopefully it will be worth it. Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app

Hi nikkilee72, I'm so sorry, I've only just seen this. I had some progress with my mum last weekend. She at least sat and talked about it. She feels of all of them I should go with the sleeve. Her arguement was the 'replumbing' isn't natural and is messing too much with nature .... like having 80% of your stomach completely removed is natural?! 🤦‍♀️ Bless. I'm sticking with RNY. This is for me and I have to do what I feel is right. Do you think you will tell your son eventually? RNY buddy sounds great! Very happy with that [emoji16] Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app

Thank you. I've been reading through alot of the forums on here and found it really helpful. I know hospitals work differently here between counties too but they strongly advise against the sleeve if there is a past history of reflux where I'm at. Its interesting how drs and hospitals differ. Sending well wishes your way, a speedy recovery and good luck with the revision [emoji4] If you are happy to, let me know how you get on with it all. You have a good weekend too. Astrid Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app

I agree. My mum has a fear of hospitals and surgery so the fear factor is probably spot on. How has your mum got on with RnY? I thought I was decided on that but I'm now toying with the sleeve. Im getting cold feet regarding the 'replumbing' of the intestine. My surgeon has said if I change my mind it fine aslong as it's not last minute. Silly question, but when you say revision is that another OP for something else? Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app

Its sad that you and so many others feel like that but you're right on both counts. I've always been fiercely independent, perhaps that trait has come back to bite me on the butt! Lol. Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app

Hi Allie, Thank you for your kind words. I'm actually UK based, I found the app whilst looking for some support forums. I dont know if there are many differences with the process between US and UK. Wishing you well with the revision surgery [emoji4] Astrid Sent from my SM-G965F using BariatricPal mobile app