Hey Guys,
I would like to introduce myself. I'm Jan from Arkansas. I'm married, the mother of a wonderful young lady and the grandmother of the cutest four kids in Arkansas. I've thought about weight loss surgery for several years now; but, my husband pretty much said "no-way". He wouldn't even talk about it...so I let it drop. Last February, I went to a seminar given by Dr Roller in Springdale AR. I came home real excited about the lapband and attempted to explain it to him. He was still totally against it; but, at least he was willing to listen. Gradually, using my womanly wiles I began to convert him. Not really, but he did become more open to my decision to have lapband surgery. He's still not a convert; basically, because he's fearful of the risk for me. But, he will support me and cheer me along I'm sure.
After hearing Dr Roller speak at the seminar, I scheduled an appointment with him on the 25th of February. My husband attended this appointment with me and I have to admit I left there more confused than ever. I wasn't sure if I really wanted the lapband, if I wanted RNY or if I just wanted to try and diet again for the upteenth thousandth time. So, I just came to a stop and did a lot of praying and lurking around on bariatric surgery sites. Finally, in late March early April I decided I did want the lapband and things have just moved along rapidly since then. I started doing all my test and appointments. My insurance was no problem. I went for my preop visit yesterday (May 13th) and I'm scheduled for surgery Monday the 19th. I have to admit I still have some mixed feelings. I'm neither real excited or scared about the surgery yet. I guess my biggest fear is giving up one of my bestfriends "Food". food has been such a big part of my life for so long-I hope and pray that I can do this.
I know the band is just a tool and that it will take a lot of work on my part. But, hopefully this time next week I'll be home and on my way to being less of a women. Wish me luck!