I need some advice. I was scheduled to have Lapband on September 4th. I was offered my dream job, so I had to cancel that date. The only available date my surgeon has for me to do the surgery is August 5th. That is 2 days before I was scheduled to go to my college roommate's wedding. The wedding has been planned and all expenses paid (non-refunable) for over a year. Now, I am trying to figure out what to do. Do I cancel my wedding trip plans to have the surgery? Or postpone the surgery for a year? I have never had such a hard decision to make. I have been counting down dates until both the wedding and my surgery. I haven't seen my old roommate in 4 years. I'm sooo torn. I want the surgery to improve my health. But, I know that I probably won't get another chance to see my college roommate for many many years. What would you do?