I'm hoping your surgery went well today. I'm going for the same one, but it won't be until August or September. I'm a little taller and a little heavier, turning 50 next month, with HBP, diabetes and sleep apnea. I also have those who don't agree with my decision. My mom died at 61, mainly due to health issues caused by her weight. You're doing the right thing for YOU, no matter what they think. Best of luck.