HI I am new here too, just starting to think about surgery, a couple years ago the doc wanted to do the whole by pass, remove most of the stomach, I just couldnt do that, it just went against the grain. I didnt know about or perhaps it was not an option for the lap band, I feel better about that and think it is the way to go, I have not yet even discussed it with my doctor. can you fill me in more so I have info when I go in to talk to her?