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Why do we do that to ourselves??? It's insane! ...and so counter productive... sigh...
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Will I Be Bad Today? I read the following on the internet and it describes EXACLY how I feel on a daily basis! Thought I would share... The alarm brought Mary from her deep sleep as she struggled to reach the snooze button. Waiting for that inevitable sound again she began to ask herself that too familiar question, Will I be bad today. She began to run down all the dreadful food rules in her head. There seemed to be so many and now since her surgery the stakes seemed even higher. Part of her was ashamed that she had not made more progress in her struggles with eating. Today was going to be different. Mary proclaimed “today I am going to be perfect”! I will follow all the rules and no matter what happens I will not eat any bad foods. Today, I will be good. After all I owe myself that much having gone through so much to get my surgery and am finally losing weight. There was that all too familiar sound of the alarm bringing her back to thoughts of the day rather than the “rules”. Climbing from bed Mary says aloud with a tone of certainty “today I will be good”. No bad foods, no bad choices, no head hunger today. The morning is always the easiest part of Mary’s day. She works at getting small sips of hot tea past her lips and has no desire for food as she thinks about her upcoming day. Traffic is stressful as usual and by the time the long commute is over she is beginning to feel small pangs of hunger. Walking past the break room filled with machines all stocked with bad foods was always the first test of the day. Today, Mary passed with flying colors. Proclaiming loudly inside her head "today I will be good". It was always better to wait until the crowd cleared before using the break room microwave to warm her breakfast dutifully brought from home and prepared with such determination to not be bad today. As the lunch hour approached Mary found herself going over all her food rules. Today was lunch with her supervisor, who always seemed to watch her eating with the most critical eye since the surgery. Mary knew her supervisor thought the surgery to be ill-advised and foolish. How many times did she say, “If you would just stick with your diets the weight would come off”. Taking so long to finish her soup made Mary self-conscious to say the least and certainly did not go unnoticed by the supervisor. This lunch was particularly stressful as Mary learned that the company was in financial difficulty and some tough decisions were coming from corporate. The lunch was all Mary could think about as she drove home that afternoon. Since lunch the rules committee in her head had been very active and loud. She must have covered every food rule in her exhaustive list of bad foods. The more she thought about what she could not have the more she wanted what she could not have. Mary was firm with her resolve that in spite of such a stressful day that she would not be bad today. She would not eat even a single bit of bad food. Mary could feel the frustration, anger, resentment, and it seemed like every feeling imaginable rushed into her body. Upon arriving at home Mary pulled the shades, turned off the phone, turned on the TV. The more she thought about her day the more she thought about every bad food in the house. I will not be bad today Mary proclaimed aloud as if someone within earshot cared about her feelings. As darkness fell numbness overcame the earlier rush of feelings. All Mary could think of was all the bad foods she could not have and all her shortcomings. In no time she had convinced herself that not only was she unlovable, but could never find another job if this one was lost. Mary suddenly found herself standing in front of the refrigerator. Opening the box of ice cream she promised herself to take only one bite. I won’t even put it in a bowl because I’m only going to take one bite. Almost instantaneously after the first bite the voices in her head began to scream the all too familiar refrains: you’ve done it now stupid; what a failure you are; you will never learn; you have absolutely no will power; every one is doing better than you after their surgery; you are bad. Having broken the rule there was no need to hold back until the ice cream was gone. This would be her dinner, as well as her much deserved punishment. When you are a bad person you deserve no help or sympathy. The thing to do is go ahead and punish yourself, because that is what bad people deserve - punishment. With the ice cream gone and exhaustion overtaking Mary’s day she lay down in bed. Will sleep coming she asked herself, "will I be bad tomorrow?" Mary like so many of us fell into the trap of defining herself as good or bad based on the foods she ate. Food was something sharply divided into good vs. bad. The rules were never to be broken and once broken there was no need to turn back until all the damage had been done. Arriving home, Mary made the faithful decision to isolate herself with only her rule and self-doubt to grow in strength until they were unbearable. Anyone else ever feel like this???
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How many cc's do you have?
StrangeDz replied to Ms_C's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I have 7cc's in a 10 cc band. I was banded in April of 2008 and my original surgeon wouldnt give me a fill in the office (long story). I had to find a new doc and didnt get my first fill until 6 months after my surgery. My new doc is very conservative with his fills and only gives .5 every 6 weeks. My last fill was in April of 2010 and was finally at my sweet spot. In the last few weeks i've noticed that I can eat more and less gets stuck. I have an appointment on August 20th, and I hope I can talk him into a .25cc fill! -
Hey! We were banded the same month and year! :thumbup: Anyway, keep in mind that as you lose weight on the outside, you also lose fat from around your organs... this would cause your band to be looser and you may need a fill.
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I also freeze my smoothie concoctions, if I dont eat one right away! It makes a blender full so I use (2) 16 oz foam cups or (4) 8 oz foam cups. If they freeze solid, I put the foam cup in the micro on defrost for 1 1/2 minutes (power 3). It makes it edible by spoon. So YUMMY!! Since they are frozen and portable, I take them to work for my afternoon Protein snack! Here are a few of my favorites- strawberry banana Protein Smoothie (90 grams of protein!) -handful of frozen strawberries (slightly defrosted-I leave 'em on the counter for about 10 minutes or put in micro on defrost for 45 seconds) -1 ripe frozen banana (i break up ripe bananas into quarters and freeze) -2 scoops of banana Protein powder -2 scoops of strawberry protein powder -1/2 cup of generic splenda -1 cup diet cranberry juice Tropical Protein Smoothie (It is close to the Tropical Trio from Keva Juice - minus the calorie and plus the protein!) -1/4 cup frozen mango chunks -1/4 cup frozen peaches -1/4 cup frozen strawberries -1 frozen banana -1 small can of pineapple chunks in their own juices -2 scoops banana protein powder -2 scoops strawberry protein powder -dash of vanilla extract -1/2 cup generic splenda -1 cup diet cranberry juice or Water
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am a FAILURE in my weight-loss journey
StrangeDz replied to MissWhitzel's topic in LAP-BAND Surgery Forums
Oh good! I'm glad you arent suffering from chronic depression! :tt2: It makes this whole weight loss journey so much harder! -
am a FAILURE in my weight-loss journey
StrangeDz replied to MissWhitzel's topic in LAP-BAND Surgery Forums
Make sure and talk to your doc about which antidepressant he/she puts you on... I have been taking amiltriptyline for years and it seems to work the best on me (over the many many others I've tried over the years) but one of the side effects is weight gain and craving for sweets! That was one of the reasons my insurance approved my surgeory. Try not to be a discouraged, you can overcome anything! -
Hee hee! You funny! :thumbup:
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That's the saddest story I've ever heard (read)... :tt1:
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From the album: Progress
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Happy birthday to meeeeee! Happy birthday to a 78 lbs lighter meeeeeee!!!
StrangeDz posted a blog entry in Blog 37975
THIS WAS LAST YEAR'S BIRTHDAY BLOG TITLED: 'ITS MY 41ST BIRTHDAY AND I'LL CRY IF I WANT TO': I'm feeling pretty depressed and guilty and discouraged and and and... and I'm tired of feeling this way! I've got my band in april of last year and didnt get my first fill until 6 months later. I've lost 55 pounds since but just cant seem to stay on track these days. Ice cream.. crackers.. mini candy bars at work... sometimes in the afternoon at work, I cant stop thinking about a snack. I obsess over it and end up becoming grouchy because I cant stop thinking about it. I end up feeling deprived and punished because I cant eat what I want... then the guilt that I even feel like that in the first place makes it worse. sigh... WHATS WRONG WITH ME??? I'm so happy with my success so far, but I feel I cant do it anymore. I was going to the gym 3 times a week, so even when I cheated, I wouldnt gain. Unfortunately I fell and hurt my ankle 4 weeks ago and can only do so much before I'm in too much pain.... so now I only go 1 or 2 times a week. I was working back to my consistency, but then I must of reinjured it because it started swelling up and hurting so I am back to square one. Boo! Although I know my depression meds contribute to my weight gain and my lust for sweets, it doesnt make me feel any better. Feels like excuses. Its my 41st bday today and I had wanted to reach my first goal of 200 pounds by today, but am 11 pounds short... and its my fault. I get up every morning and tell myself that today I wont eat anything I am not suppose to and that I will go to the gym and be proud of myself... but that never seams to happen 100%. I'm sorry I didnt have any words of wisdom or positive energy to contribute... maybe I shouldnt of posted at all... anyway, good luck to you... ------------------------------------------------------------------------- This year my perspective is so much different from last year! It's my 42nd birthday and I dont want to cry! These are some things I've learned since last year: I've learned that I'm NOT perfect and that's OK. Really, it is! I've realized that I will still have bad days and struggle with my depression, but good days are always around the bend. I dont feel out of control or hopeless anymore. Thats a good thing! I've learned that having the right amount of saline in your band is the key! My doc will only give .5 ccs at a time and it's taken me two years EXACTLY to reach my sweet spot! On my last fill (April 2010), I went for a fill and since I have lost 12 pounds! I even cancelled an appointment I scheduled for today. I rescheduled for August-just in case. I've learned that control, exercise and making wise food choices is important, but if you dont have the right amount in your band, it will be harder. I've learned that although I've come far, its not over. There is ALWAYS room for improvement and I'm alive and capable to do whatever I set my mind to! Splurging on chocolate or pizza once in awhile isnt a make or break deal! There is always a tomorrow to start fresh. ALWAYS. I've learned that I'm happier with my current body image than I have been in probably 15 years! I'm far from being 'thin', but I'm a hell of a lot better off than I was two years ago!!! Happy Birthday to me! Happy Birthday to me! Happy Birthday to a healthier-happier meeeeeee! Happy Birthday to me! -
How do you get the percent of body weight? I used the calculator link you posted and it tells me the percent of weight i've lost in percentage... ie- I started at 266 and am at 188, which is 70.67%. I've only lost 78 pounds so far... i'm confused.... math and I have never had a close relationship!
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What are Papaya Pills and where can I get them?
StrangeDz replied to aleecia2331's topic in LAP-BAND Surgery Forums
I bought some at Walmart last night... I have yet to try them, but I sure am curious! -
wisdom you wish you knew prior to surgery
StrangeDz replied to teach724's topic in LAP-BAND Surgery Forums
This is the site I use... Once you design your ticker, insert the code into your user signature page. Anytime you update it, it will update on any pages you have the code on. Good luck! :Dancing_biggrin: Weight Loss - Diet Ticker -
wisdom you wish you knew prior to surgery
StrangeDz replied to teach724's topic in LAP-BAND Surgery Forums
Everyone loses at their own rate.... dont compare yourself with others and give yourself a break! It WILL come off. Take pictures, weigh yourself and take measurements BEFORE your surgery. My doc didnt do either and I wish I had. I have so few before pics. All I have to compare myself to is the huge clothes I use to wear. Get a flu shot every year! I got the flu almost 2 years after my surgery, and it is nearly impossible to puke! I thought I was going to DIE from the dry heaves... I think its the first time I actually begged the Lord to let me puke! Ugh, it was horrible...... Take my advise and get a flu shot! This isnt a quick fix. When I go for my fill, I sit there in the lobby with gastric bypass patients who aer all bragging on how they have lost 100-150 pounds in 6 months... and here I was sitting there only losing 60 pounds in a year! Your decision to get the band instead of the gastric is unique for everyone and i'm sure it is the best decision for YOU. Enjoy your new healthy lifestyle and you will reap the benefits! :Dancing_biggrin: -
How the Lap-Band actually works, fills and refills
StrangeDz replied to Wendell Edwards's topic in LAP-BAND Surgery Forums
I feel your pain! I got a fill last Friday (6 days ago) and I am having trouble with most liquids and am eating very very little. I have also lost 7 lbs but eating is getting frustrating! I tried refried beans last night, and gacked up every bite! I was able to eat half a sausage link (of all things) and it stayed down great. I am hoping I wasnt too overly zealous with my last fill of .5 ccs and am now TOO tight. I'm at 7 ccs in a 10 cc band. Before this I was only losing about 3 or 4 lbs every 6 weeks or so. Anyone have some words of wisdom about how long I should wait before becoming concerned about being TOO tight? Should I wait a couple of weeks and see if eating and drinking gets better? -
Ever hear of "soft signs" ???
StrangeDz replied to Froggie D's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Since my last fill last week, my nose runs and I yawn over and over when I'm full! I thought I was trippin'! Glad to see I'm not the only one! :thumbup: -
Ok... not only do I burp more since my last fill, but I YAWN when something is getting stuck! My nose runs and I cant stop yawning! Once I gack up whatever is stuck, or it finally goes down, my nose stops running and the yawning stops! Dont you think that's weird??? :eek: Does anyone else experience this?
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I see Dr. Lara in El Paso at the Las Palmas & Del Sol Bariatric Center. His phone number is 877-335-7657. He didnt perform my surgery, but has been my doc for every fill since (2 yrs ago). I really like him. He is kind, but gets straight to the point. His nurse, Deborah and dietician, Blanca are terrific! Very supportive and full of information.
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I get a runny nose too!!! I thought I was crazy! :eek:
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LOVE IT!:biggrin:
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4/1/10 Happy Bandiversary Bunnies!
StrangeDz commented on Band_Groupie's blog entry in The Sweet Spot
Thanks! 72 lbs in two years! Slow, but moving along! Happy Bandiversary to you too, sister! -
I DO THE SAME THING!!! Everyday I get up and say I'm not going to eat anything i'm not suppose to... that I will stick to my plan. Without fail, I usually fail. Around 3:00 I want to snack! I obsess about it. ugh.
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Hi! I noticed that you and I are on similiar paths. I had my surgery done in April of 2008, I weighed 266 and am also 5'2! You have lost much more weight than me, but I dont always use the tool I have been given to the best of my ability, and so I cant blame the band! Anyway, I just thought I'd say Hi! PS... You had your surgery on my 40th bday!