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babygrl1234 you are right, my brother is huge, as soon as he gets home it's on the computer and eat 2 minute noodles and crap,he doesn't move. This game kills all relationships and families, trust me it does. Newhope, you are enabling your husband. Why do you think he asks you should he stop or is it OK? because.. he knows you'll give in and go " no it's Ok," You are giving him permission so until you stop doing that he'll keep doing it. From his point of view it seems that if you give him permission he's got nothing to feel guilty about, has he???

Hi, My brother and his wife are into this game.He has now completely immersed himself into this world to the point where he has no contact with family at all EVER!! and my parents have never held their granddaughter who lives round the corner.She is 15 mths old.You may think hangon, there must be other reasons? none just 2 people completely sucked in by virtual reality.I have lost half of my family due to this game.Life is too short.Show your husband this post, he must realise how much life he is missing and to think about if tomorrow you and your daughter were gone for good, what would his regrets be? Chuck out the computer !!!!:frown: I think that maybe as your hubby is an active serviceman, he sees this game as a good outlet for strategy and warfare! Which it probably is but is addictive in a negative way.I would suggest playing a very physical sport with the boys, take out the aggression, stress and all the other stuff on the ball!!

Thanks for the encouragement, we went out today and I did a bit of walking but have now fell in a heap, I work as a dog groomer and will have someone with me Tuesday but may ask her to work Wed and thurs also.My job is very physical, but not so hard if I'm only doing small dogs. Gas is bad and I feel like I'm 7 mths pregnant.Can't wait to pass that stage and start to see results. I am psychologically hungry but not physically,it's like giving up smoking,it's the demons in your head you have to fight.

Hi, I am new here and an Aussie too.I was banded yesterday,had an awful first night and came home today.I am really sore and sorry for myself today.hoping it will get better over weekend,going back to work Tuesday.:wub: